Can Autism become worse?
But I got better again. It was actually relieving to read online about autistic people getting worse because it meant I wasn't crazy or faking it.
Wow, that's bloody awful. My mum sometimes finds it hard to deal with me but she's never accused me of 'trying to be autistic' or something stupid like that, she kind of just gets on with it because she understands how difficult things are for me. I've had depression in the past too, it was just after I got kicked out of my 2nd high school (just after I received a diagnosis) and missed Year 8, a whole year of schooling. For the whole year I was alone and constantly in my bedroom. I also began taking medication for my ADHD but the problem was that they gave me too much of a high prescription and it caused my depression to worsen and... I won't get into the details as that year is still quite personal but let's just say it was a very dark time in my life that I never wish to repeat.
I can't understand how your parents thought/(still think?) you were faking... I doubt someone would be pathetic enough to fake autism/aspergers. Does your mum still think you're 'faking' or what? I really can't understand the concept of your own mother not believing you.
Yes she does. I admit I did use it as an excuse then too because I didn't even try. I thought just because I had it, everyone had to put up with it and I don't have to do anything. I don't have to take any responsibility. That was the impression I got. Then I tried to have ODD (thinking it was a choice kids do) so I could get my way and have an easier life and bye bye anxiety and things are calm and relaxed for me because a boy I knew had it too and he always got his way by being mean to his mother and violent and she always gave him his way because she feared him. But for me it backfired because Mom told me she would send me to a hospital if I hit her again. The kid had been in and out of hospitals too and acted better when his dad was around because he didn't let him get away with that s**t.
I realize now ODD isn't a choice just like being a psychopath isn't a choice either or being a narcissist. It's not like Frankie decided one day "I hate how I have all this anxiety and not getting my way so I think I am going to be an as*hole. I will start screaming at my mother and hitting her and breaking stuff to get her to listen to me and do what I want." Sometimes I feel sorry for these kids because they are like a victim too themselves, victim of their illness. But the kid took pride in it. I just found a shortcut and tried to use it and my family wouldn't allow it so they didn't let me and my mom put a stop to it.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses.
what your describing is actually something that i have experienced also. for me it was because as i got older people expected me to do more with less support. so where i was able to do some things with a lot of support i turned only able to do very few things because there was only a little support.
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Burnout
Burnout, long-term shutdown, or whatever you want to call it, happens generally when you have been doing much more than you should be doing. Most people have a level to which they are capable of functioning without burnout, a level to which they are capable of functioning for emergency purposes only, and a level to which they simply cannot function. In autistic people in current societies, that first level is much narrower. Simply functioning at a minimally acceptable level to non-autistic people or for survival, can push us into the zone that in a non-autistic person would be reserved for emergencies. Prolonged functioning in emergency mode can result in loss of skills and burnout.
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I relate to this so much.
True, everyone gets worse as they get older. That is why older adults have less patients with kids and get more exhausted when they have to chase them around. My dad's social skills had gotten worse. My grandma got worse too when she started getting Alzheimer's and as it got worse, the worse she got herself. Then I started to wonder if she had always been that way or if it's her disease. It may have been both. There is such thing as second childhood for elderlies.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses.
University study - Autistic Individuals' facial Recognition Worsens with Age.
http://www.georgetown.edu/research/news ... study.html
http://www.georgetown.edu/research/news ... study.html
This is very interesting.
League Girl and Coda, I have also been called a hypochondriac all my life. My mom always said that about me.
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"I'm bad and that's good. I'll never be good and that's not bad. There's no one I'd rather be than me."
Wreck It Ralph
My autism haa steadily got worse since I became an adult. I've been originally diagnosed as Asperger's, but recently my neurologist said it's more like classic autism now. Autism can definitely get worse, especially when you're subjected to multiple stressors.
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I am a partially verbal classic autistic. I am a pharmacology student with full time support.
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