Sorenzo wrote:
I'm more or less an asexual. I don't blame you if you think the whole thing is icky or stupid, but I've gone down a road that led me to hate people who weren't like me, and it's not pleasant and it's not healthy. It's just easy. Try not to judge people. If you succeed, you'll remove a huge burden from yourself.
I used to say I was asexual (I'm not really, but I won't go into why). However, being asexual in the sense of not bonding with sex, and generally disliking regular sex in a relationship, never meant I was against the idea of having sex in order to procreate. For me, having regular sex "for fun" is not appealing, but having sex in order to get children is very appealing. Also, in Aspie Quiz, I've shown that asexual relates to "intimacy" issues, and not sexual issues, and thus can be thought of as "I don't like the NT way of bonding" rather than having no sex-drive. I'm sure there are people that identify as asexual that have no sex-drive, but I'm not one of those, and neither are a majority of people thinking they are asexual.