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CynicalWaffle
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17 Nov 2014, 11:59 am

And 0_equals_true asked me why my thought on the matter was so important.

Well, I'll tell him this.

I am the alpha and the omega. The beginning and the end. And I am always correct in my observations. If you don't believe this to be true, then you're in the wrong. :wink:



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17 Nov 2014, 12:04 pm

Holy ___ we have a bible God here; hide your kids.



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17 Nov 2014, 1:34 pm

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Yes, but meanwhile the less fortunate 5 girls are getting dating experience, bit boost of self worth and maybe sex - while the 5 equivalent guys are getting nothing of that.
Of course in real life population in not 10 - so the lack of exp and self-esteem even make it harder for those guys in the upcoming attempts.


You forget one thing. If girls fail to get a long-term partner while they are young (or gets divorced) they will have a much harder time when they get older. For guys, age doesn't matter as much. They can still become fathers at 50 and beyond.



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17 Nov 2014, 2:42 pm

I never said anything about anyone having it worse.

I just have a problem with the assumption that girls don't get as excited about dates, and don't celebrate as hard. We do!! !! !

We probably celebrate harder than you boys!

:lol: :P


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17 Nov 2014, 2:51 pm

rdos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yes, but meanwhile the less fortunate 5 girls are getting dating experience, bit boost of self worth and maybe sex - while the 5 equivalent guys are getting nothing of that.
Of course in real life population in not 10 - so the lack of exp and self-esteem even make it harder for those guys in the upcoming attempts.


You forget one thing. If girls fail to get a long-term partner while they are young (or gets divorced) they will have a much harder time when they get older. For guys, age doesn't matter as much. They can still become fathers at 50 and beyond.



Not true, men are much less likely to become fathers after 50.

The "age doesn't matter for men" is an old thinking, science today proves that men's fertility decreases downhill with age, men have a biological clock too.
Also imagine how hard for a 60+ father to fulfill the needs of a toddler, let alone when the child becomes teen while him is getting too old to move properly.


Also newer generations are becoming less fertile; after decades we'll no longer remain the forever-fertile gender.



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17 Nov 2014, 7:42 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Holy ___ we have a bible God here; hide your kids.


You're goddamn right, buddy.

*evil laugh*



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17 Nov 2014, 9:31 pm

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Just to a date but still I haven't been on one in months and she seems like a great match for me.

pardon me I've got to go moon walk.

Have you been on your date yet???? :)



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18 Nov 2014, 1:48 am

He was probably kidnapped.



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18 Nov 2014, 4:37 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He was probably kidnapped.


No offence man but you've a bit of an as*hole.


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18 Nov 2014, 4:52 pm

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Some people just can't handle the truth, Boo. Best to just let 'em be

YEs I mean if some people fantasize they are the rulers of facts and they can twist these trying to make justice out of the injustice they feel inside and to express their resent for the ones they in fact desire, then..
I guess it's better to just let them be since they don't want to take in consideration other opinions even if they hear them...


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18 Nov 2014, 5:42 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He was probably kidnapped.


No offence man but you've a bit of an as*hole.



No offence taken, kiddo.

But seriously, the Op disappeared: The outcome was either too good so he's being busy with her or it was horrible and still recovering.



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18 Nov 2014, 6:56 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
rdos wrote:
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Yes, but meanwhile the less fortunate 5 girls are getting dating experience, bit boost of self worth and maybe sex - while the 5 equivalent guys are getting nothing of that.
Of course in real life population in not 10 - so the lack of exp and self-esteem even make it harder for those guys in the upcoming attempts.


You forget one thing. If girls fail to get a long-term partner while they are young (or gets divorced) they will have a much harder time when they get older. For guys, age doesn't matter as much. They can still become fathers at 50 and beyond.



Not true, men are much less likely to become fathers after 50.

The "age doesn't matter for men" is an old thinking, science today proves that men's fertility decreases downhill with age, men have a biological clock too.
Also imagine how hard for a 60+ father to fulfill the needs of a toddler, let alone when the child becomes teen while him is getting too old to move properly.


Also newer generations are becoming less fertile; after decades we'll no longer remain the forever-fertile gender.


Also, people generally want to date and marry someone close to their own age. In my opinion, men have biological clocks because women do. If I'm in my late 40s, I doubt I'm going to end up with someone 15-20 years younger. Research shows that once a woman hits 35, the chances of pregnancy start to drop off pretty quickly.



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18 Nov 2014, 7:42 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Butterfiend wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He was probably kidnapped.


No offence man but you've a bit of an as*hole.



No offence taken, kiddo.

But seriously, the Op disappeared: The outcome was either too good so he's being busy with her or it was horrible and still recovering.



I've been in both of those situations, so I know how he feel.


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18 Nov 2014, 9:13 pm

I don't know Boo really, but he's been spot on the last few posts. Sorry if people take it as being an as*hole, I see it as being wise.

Wisdom>>>>>naivety everytime.



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19 Nov 2014, 7:23 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
CynicalWaffle wrote:
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The very fact that males here celebrate when they get a date means there's something wrong: their choices are limited to those few-in-a-blue-moon girls who happen to say yes for whatever reason and who might turn out to be horrible persons.

It's just a date, not a marriage.

It's the interview, not the job.


This here, is the ultimate truth.

You never see women celebrating when they get a date. EVER. The fact that a guy has to celebrate getting a date (at 34 years old, no less!) signifies that the dating pool is skewed.



It can be even worse, some guys here start threads like "Omfg! I have received a reply on Okc!! ! What to DO NOW??" -

I am not mocking anyone, but this is sad......really sad.


<raises hand> :( when you send out 1000's of messages and only get 1 reply it becomes a big scary thing, you've failed 999 times so you are so afraid of f*****g up the 1 chance you have.



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19 Nov 2014, 7:24 pm

rdos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yes, but meanwhile the less fortunate 5 girls are getting dating experience, bit boost of self worth and maybe sex - while the 5 equivalent guys are getting nothing of that.
Of course in real life population in not 10 - so the lack of exp and self-esteem even make it harder for those guys in the upcoming attempts.


You forget one thing. If girls fail to get a long-term partner while they are young (or gets divorced) they will have a much harder time when they get older. For guys, age doesn't matter as much. They can still become fathers at 50 and beyond.


nope. cause women be like "eww you a 50 year old virgin, what the F*** is wrong with you?!?!?!?"

same goes for non virgins who have never had a gf.