Do men only care about "bimbos"?

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21 Nov 2014, 9:47 am

This is another thing I'm concerned about, and I'm sorry for using the word "bimbo". Why do I get the feeling that boys and men only care about women who look like gorgeous models (especially with pretty big bust sizes) and wanting to only have sexual relationships with them? Why can't guys go after nice-looking, well-behaved girls with a quirky/nerdy side or personality? I find this totally barbaric.

I'm sorry. I'm concerned how people date like this nowadays, with all the ridiculous media and how men teach younger generation boys how to hook up with girls like that. Forgive me if I may be wrong, but, again, I'm just really concerned about it.

PS- And they've been doing this since the early civilizations of mankind! :x



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21 Nov 2014, 9:54 am

If you get around people more, you'll realize that guys get turned on by much more than "bimbos."



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21 Nov 2014, 10:09 am

They don't. You're wrong.


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21 Nov 2014, 10:14 am

It depends. Trophy wives "bimbos", are best suited for less intellectual, more materialistic individuals. Some look like bimbos, but are far from it. I think you may be referring to the more "showy narcissistic types".



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21 Nov 2014, 11:10 am

I personally have always been more attracted to women who were more intelligent and reserved than most. However, I've only ever been in a romantic relationship with one person who I believe fits that dscription and asked out (only to be rejected by) one other. Conversely, I have been in (usually very short-lived) a few romantic relatonships with young women who I believe could fall into the "bimbo" category.

This is simply because I didn't have to aproach them. If an attracive young woman approaches me and starts bing extremely physicaly affectionate, I can surmise that she is interested in me in "that" sense. That means that I don't have to worry about whether or not my feelings are reciprocated or anything like that. Of curse, thetypeof person that decides to direct this kind of physical affection towards omeone they've only met in passing tends to be someone that would have nothing in common with someone lke me.

So, I've learned to politely decline in such situations and went back to admiring a specific reasonable and intelligent young woman who (while she's said that finds my company pleasant) almost certainly doesn't reciprocate my feelings and as such I haven't made them known to her.



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21 Nov 2014, 11:16 am

I don't. Most of those "model" types are silly and stupid. They coast through life on their looks. When their looks fade, they are left with nothing. I am personally attracted to the gamer geeky type. Both genders. They tend to have more in common with me and share my general interests. They also have a tendency to be more accepting. They are also capable of having an intelligent conversation.


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21 Nov 2014, 11:31 am

I think the media shows us images of glamorous women constantly so the average man gets hypnotized into thinking that is the only type of woman worth dating.



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21 Nov 2014, 11:40 am

Thank you all for your help. I appreciated it.



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21 Nov 2014, 12:14 pm

Not only, but they are on the top of the food chain in most cases.



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21 Nov 2014, 1:45 pm

UncannyDanny wrote:
This is another thing I'm concerned about, and I'm sorry for using the word "bimbo". Why do I get the feeling that boys and men only care about women who look like gorgeous models (especially with pretty big bust sizes) and wanting to only have sexual relationships with them? Why can't guys go after nice-looking, well-behaved girls with a quirky/nerdy side or personality? I find this totally barbaric.

I'm sorry. I'm concerned how people date like this nowadays, with all the ridiculous media and how men teach younger generation boys how to hook up with girls like that. Forgive me if I may be wrong, but, again, I'm just really concerned about it.

PS- And they've been doing this since the early civilizations of mankind! :x


Because.. When you are talking/hitting on a chick, it's more fun if she's into you, as in smiling and/or laughing, now I don't really know what bimbo means. But if a lady is happy to be around you; makes you happier. You having a nerdy look/personality doesn't matter, maybe you're not going out enough, as in going to parties or social events.



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21 Nov 2014, 3:13 pm

UncannyDanny wrote:
This is another thing I'm concerned about, and I'm sorry for using the word "bimbo". Why do I get the feeling that boys and men only care about women who look like gorgeous models (especially with pretty big bust sizes) and wanting to only have sexual relationships with them? Why can't guys go after nice-looking, well-behaved girls with a quirky/nerdy side or personality? I find this totally barbaric.

I'm sorry. I'm concerned how people date like this nowadays, with all the ridiculous media and how men teach younger generation boys how to hook up with girls like that. Forgive me if I may be wrong, but, again, I'm just really concerned about it.

PS- And they've been doing this since the early civilizations of mankind! :x


I'm sorry that I asked that stupid question. I don't really want to offend anyone.



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21 Nov 2014, 3:22 pm

Men like beautiful women. Beautiful does not mean bimbo.
I look like a doll but I have nerdy interests and I bet plenty of guys would like that.
I've heard most guys would choose my curvy body over that of a bony model.



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21 Nov 2014, 3:32 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
Men like beautiful women. Beautiful does not mean bimbo.
I look like a doll but I have nerdy interests and I bet plenty of guys would like that.
I've heard most guys would choose my curvy body over that of a bony model.


I am surprised a good ambitious girl like you isn't taken, the men in your area must have problems. Maybe you aren't in the right area?



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21 Nov 2014, 3:38 pm

AlexanderDantes wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Men like beautiful women. Beautiful does not mean bimbo.
I look like a doll but I have nerdy interests and I bet plenty of guys would like that.
I've heard most guys would choose my curvy body over that of a bony model.


I am surprised a good ambitious girl like you isn't taken, the men in your area must have problems. Maybe you aren't in the right area?


I hear that all the time from guys. I am very popular on tinder, but rarely get approached irl. My social life is pretty poor. I don't meet any new men in a week. I'm not part of an association or anything. I only have three friends. I am a bit weird. That doesn't help.



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21 Nov 2014, 3:40 pm

The only men interested in women they perceive to be bimbos are abusers and users.


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21 Nov 2014, 3:42 pm

I look like a doll too.
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