Is there something wrong with me?

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xxZeromancerlovexx
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14 Dec 2014, 9:40 pm

Everyone thinks I'm hateful all because I talk loud. My throat has been bothering me for a month and I haven't been able to go to the doctor about it.

Not to mention nobody likes wants to hear about anything that I like. I have online friends, but that's not enough. Music, demonology, writing, video games, manga,Vocaloid and cartoons are my main interest. All because I talk about celebrity crushes and pop culture doesn't mean that I'm in a fantasy world! I'm a 21 year old female.



Layla93
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15 Dec 2014, 1:09 am

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. My best friend likes at least most of what you listed lol. You just have to find people that like the same things. Everyone is a little bit odd, you just have to find the people that share the same oddness lol.



RyanLewty
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15 Dec 2014, 9:10 pm

I agree with Layla.

There is nothing at all wrong with anything that you described, it may simply just not be everyones 'cup of tea'.

The best place to start if you want to make friends or form other relationships is find groups or events in your area that are to do with your interests.

This will give you a great opportunity to meet people who are like minded and you are most likely going to 'hit it off' with.

And as to your speaking slightly louder than usual, this really isn't an issue at all.
It may be useful to simply tell anyone that you are getting on well with that you just tend to speak louder than usual, and it has nothing to do with them :)

I hope this helps :)
I run a blog where I talk about stuff like this and how to make friends, join in conversations easily etc.
Check it out if you want :) succeedingsociallyaspie.com