How to respond to this?

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I am not physically attracted to too overweight girls (and no, drama queens of wp, I am not looking for models either nor feel entitled to one).

What so often happens with me, on okcupid especially, is that I exchange few messages with a girl who conceals her weight artistically or using a pic when she wasn't so overweight, they give away their phone numbers so quickly (they are the fastest type in suggesting to continue the exchange in texting).

Then they show a photo that reveals their true weight on the phone....and they ask what I think.

Last time this happened, she sent me a mirror photo out of blue showing clearly her width, she's about 2.5x of me and she asked me 'what do you think? you like?'.

How is one supposed to honestly reply to this?

You don't have to reply at all. You can just leave the conversation and not answer anything else they try to say. If you feel like you must say something, "No thank you" works well. Anything else they say after you said "No thank you" can then be ignored or blocked.

^ What's the story of your avatar btw? Dom male macho style?

^ Boo, I am a female slave in the bdsm sense. If you are interested, my full profile is here:

http://www.collarspace.com/personals/v/ ... etails.htm

and here:

https://fetlife.com/users/442226

I'm sorry but you are not my type.

Short to the point and not mean. I mean how can someone get offended for not being someones type...

Actually random people on the internet will frequently get offended at you, no matter what you say or how nicely you try to say it. But if they're the ones who lied about themselves in the first place, who cares.

It's not always that obvious they misrepresent themselves, sometimes they don't put a pic at all.