How do I talk to a girl on a dating site and ask her out?

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This girl went to my school, she also has a Facebook account and she's into online dating and is single and looking for a relationship. What do I say to her? What do I talk about? How do I ask her out? How does online dating work?

Dude, just play it simple and be cool with it. Don't be too eager to talk to her. Come off as a friend, ya know? Don't call her a dude or man or bro, evidently. Be sweet, but still hold your ground. You don't want her to think you're that easy to get. Play hard to get. Girls dig that sort of stuff. Depending on how she is and what she is looking for.

Well, since I'm a girl, don't play hard to get - I don't like games. Ask her questions about herself from the information you can get on her bio - NT's like to talk about themselves. Don't focus on the asking her out yet because it's too soon. Get to know her as a friend first and ask to "friend" her on facebook so you can get to know who she hangs out with and what her interests are. I don't know if she lives near you, but online dating is sometimes a problem because the person lives far away. Oh, use humor and stay positive in your responses and don't give out too much personal information about yourself too soon or it may scare her away. Keep things light and fun.

Definitely do not play hard to get. JUst ask her casually if she'd like to meet up for coffee or to go get ice cream and ask her questions while you hang out. Nothing too personal but more like what she does for work, if she's at university then ask her what she is studying. Don't be scared to ask her out she's on that dating site to find dates and girls like confident guys if you approach her with an intention to be her boyfriend rather than her best friend you have less of a chance of being friend zoned.