I'm doing a summer independent study on different kinds of passing, which is posing as some kind of category that you don't legitimately belong to. The main ones seem to be race passing, class passing, and sexual orientation passing (people pretending they're heterosexual). The reason I'm studying this is because I'm researching autistic people passing as neurotypical. There's an awesome book I'm about to read called
Circus of Souls by Dawn Prince Hughes. It's written by an autistic woman and her overarching point seems to be that everyone is a "freak" and is "passing" in one way or another, but that only certain kinds of passing and certain kinds of oddities are given attention.
In the
Washington Post article, the first video shows her talking with a picture behind her on her desk of her with her husband and kid. She's young and clearly white in the photo, so it doesn't look like she's covered her trail too well. But the stories she told about her life growing up sounded like something from a Toni Morrison book. Like, if a white person wrote some of things Toni Morrison wrote, would it be okay? There's like a fine line between deeply personal and characterization. Once this lady turned out to have been white since, let's say, she was a teenager, when she might have started "identifying" as black, those stories started to sound offensive.
I mean, like I study autism and I'm interested in autistic people, but what if I decided to "identify" as autistic? That sounds pretty horrible to me.
It's not common finding people who want to identify themselves as autistic. Usually there's something going on first and they either get a professional diagnosis or, years later, they are soul searching, trying to figure out why they feel so different and cannot fit in. They read about autism and it resonates with them. Maybe a relative is trying to figure them out, reads about autism, and suggests it as a possibility? The ordinary, average joes who never question themselves most likely will not call themselves autistic, even if they are, heh.