Yes, I think so. I'm told to be honest and let my feelings be known, but so often when I do that, I am not believed, am still pushed to behave otherwise, or have my words twisted or turned on me. For example, if I don't want a high level of affection. I try to clarify by preferences, am told I should, but then get a speech about how I'm hurting someone by not being affectionate. So then I'm caught between faking it or being honest, and can't win. Maybe not quit bating, but I certainly feel like I get pushed into corners a lot, or am pushed to be "black and white" in my thinking when I try not to, then I get accused of behaving as if choices must be all or nothing. It feels very manipulative.
Also, when I get mad, I'm being a dick. When they get mad, it's because I'm hurting them. Never makes sense to me. Except that the other person is trying to change me.