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Scoots5012
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10 May 2005, 6:02 pm

I was at lunch today with a person who noticed that every 30 seconds or so, I would turn my head and observe all that was around me.

Does anyone else here do this?


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10 May 2005, 6:10 pm

Quite the opposite. Unless I'm alone. But if I'm in a conversation, I'm lucky to be alert enough to look both ways before crossing the street.



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10 May 2005, 6:24 pm

Scoots5012 wrote:
I was at lunch today with a person who noticed that every 30 seconds or so, I would turn my head and observe all that was around me.

Does anyone else here do this?


Yes. Not every 30 seconds or so but often enough.


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10 May 2005, 7:11 pm

If I'm not having to concentrate on something else (for instance a person) then I love looking at and studying my surroundings. Otherwise, I am too distraced just as pyraxis said: "I'm lucky to be alert enough to look both ways before crossing the street." That goes for me, too.

If I am concentrating (or trying to concentrate) on something/one else, then I could miss an asteroid hitting the earth (unless of course the other person stopped talking and we both go silent).


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10 May 2005, 7:51 pm

I take Sophists & Pyraxis's point of view. I am
deeply focused. I am so focused that
I must say, for example...
watch all of "Ben Hur" or not start it at
all(all 4 hours worth).

When it comes to my surroundings,
I will consciously break away so I
can reconnect to what is going on
around me. This keeps me in practice
in the eye and enviremental contact
issue, yet it is not a natural part of me.

Hmmmm?
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10 May 2005, 9:27 pm

I'm the same way. Every 5 to 10 minutes I have to remember what's going on around me, and to check the clock.


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11 May 2005, 12:06 am

Scoots5012 wrote:
I was at lunch today with a person who noticed that every 30 seconds or so, I would turn my head and observe all that was around me.

Does anyone else here do this?


I try not to do that.



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11 May 2005, 12:15 am

In public I do this too. Maybe I’m slightly paranoid, but I do like to know what is going on around me. My father taught me never to sit with my back to the door in a restaurant, so now when I am in any room in a public building I always position myself so I can see the door.

I was in a doctor’s office waiting room earlier today and was reading a magazine. Every minute or so I would look up and scan the room.



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11 May 2005, 3:23 am

synchro wrote:
My father taught me never to sit with my back to the door in a restaurant
Perhaps you should change your handle to Paul Atreides. :-)


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11 May 2005, 4:16 am

Yeah, I scan and observe alot. Exept for when I am all alone in my house I feel completely comfortable. In public places I am so paranoid and I look up alot, dunno why.



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11 May 2005, 6:33 am

Yes, I tend to look around alot.



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11 May 2005, 6:39 am

I only look around like that if I'm paranoid, and I'm usually looking around with this face O_O. So it's kind of like, obvious I'm getting a bit paranoid. Or I also do that if I non-verbally am trying to tell someone to leave me alone. Apperantly "Please, don't bother me" doesn't work these days.



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11 May 2005, 8:19 am

yeah, i always take corner seats so it is easy to look around. I don't really think that it is just AS unique; just my thought.


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11 May 2005, 2:10 pm

Jetson wrote:
Perhaps you should change your handle to Paul Atreides. :-)


Funny you should mention that, Jetson…

I seem to have a similar ability to Paul Atreides. When in my home, I do sit with my back to the door. But by listening, I know exactly what rooms my family members are in, which way they are walking, what they are saying, and who is coming up the stairs. Even though the dining room and den are downstairs, I can tell which room they are sitting in if they are speaking.



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11 May 2005, 2:11 pm

Same here Matey.

Anywho, I look all around me every so often, but i have a pet cat that thinks the best way to get me to play is to jump on me :P


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11 May 2005, 2:21 pm

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I seem to have a similar ability to Paul Atreides. When in my home, I do sit with my back to the door. But by listening, I know exactly what rooms my family members are in, which way they are walking, what they are saying, and who is coming up the stairs. Even though the dining room and den are downstairs, I can tell which room they are sitting in if they are speaking.


Maybe you are doing more than just listening, syncho. Not conciously anyhow.

I can guess pretty well who is behind me if someone from my immediate family walks up behind me (so long as I am not in a trance or caught up in something) and respond to them even before they say a word. The weird thing is that I am hearing impaired so I don't really hear them that well when they walk, but I can feel their feet strike the ground, see the change in ambient lighting (indirect shadows, in a way) and feel the air pressure shift when someone walks into a room. I guess one can do a lot with the other 4 senses.


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