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04 Apr 2007, 4:37 am

Hi fellow Dino-Aspies,

I would like to create a roll call, a list of who each one of us is. If you want to participate, please copy, paste and fill out the below list. You may fill out as many or as few of the items on the list. The more you fill out the better for the rest of us to get to know you.

One thing though... you MUST be 40 and above to qualify for the roll call. I am sorry if you feel left out, but I need to set a border for reference somewhere and 40 seemed to me as 'old enough' to qualify... Now, if you are just a few months short of being 40, that should not be an issue, go ahead and join in.

Here is the question list:

My age is: (number)
My birthday is on: (Date/Month/Year)
My diagnosis is: (example: AS - self dx, etc)
I was diagnosed in: (month, year)
I live in: (example USA, UK, Australia, Italy, etc)
I am married/have a partner: (yes/no, or other explanation as appropriate)
I have kids: (yes/no or number of kids and maybe also age)
My kids have AS: (yes/no or other appropriate detail)
I would like to have a relationship because: (info)
I don't want a relationship because: (info)
I have other medical/health issues: (yes/no and additional info)
One more thing I want to add: (in case there is something or anything you want to share with the rest and is not included in the above list of questions)

Thanks,
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04 Apr 2007, 4:46 am

My age is: 45 (female)
My birthday is on: 07/12/1961
My diagnosis is: AS - self dxed
I was diagnosed in: sometime in 2006 after seeing a BBC documentary about Dr. Temple Grandin
I live in: Amsterdam, Netherlands
I am married/have a partner: not married had 2 relationships that ended badly
I have kids: no kids
My kids have AS: n/a
I would like to have a relationship because: I like to travel and would like to find someone to travel with me. It does't have to be a live-together thing, more a travel-together thing.
I don't want a relationship because: I do not want to get married (but I dislike being alone all the time)
I have other medical/health issues: I have heart problems, and an neuromuscular condition. If you want more details PM me.
One more thing I want to add: I would prefer to meet someone from Europe, not necessarily my own country. I speak many langauges and travel often to Greece (I was born there) so if someone is interested to join me in my travels, plese PM me.

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04 Apr 2007, 8:06 am

Oh, I didn't know this was a personal ad

I remove my posting.



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04 Apr 2007, 11:15 am

My age is: 56
My birthday is on: 28 July 1950
My diagnosis is: AS, self.. Bipolar offical, which I'm questioning
I was diagnosed in: a few months ago 07
I live in: Millerton, Penna, America
I am married/have a partner: Married
I have kids: 1 biological, that I know of, many other types kids-in-law, kids from previous marrige, grand kids, great grandkids
My kids have AS: don't know
I would like to have a relationship because: 1 marrige before, lived with others that never lasted over a year, to many others to count
I don't want a relationship because: I like this one, but can be wearing at times, but over all very good and getting better. Second wife isn't out of the question, most likely never happen.
I have other medical/health issues: Hepititus C, Deslexic, ADD?, still sorting because of AS being new (as in knowing), some others which I ignore
One more thing I want to add: I would like my memory back and still look for meds to give me some help. Different meds give me better results, from bad to good. So the mood stabilizer route I'm on has a downside. The Hep C leaves me alone and I leave it alone, but has changed my out look on life, for the positive. My wife has been seriously ill for a very long time.


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04 Apr 2007, 12:08 pm

My age is:44
My birthday is on: August 18
My diagnosis is: AS self
I was diagnosied in:Texas
I live in :Bryan, Texas
I'm divorced/no current partner
I have no kids
Do I want a relationship:
I truthfuly don't know. I'm not good with realtionships but I'm always hopeful.



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04 Apr 2007, 12:25 pm

My age is: 50
My birthday is on: 4/12/56
My diagnosis is: AS/ADD/CAPD
I was diagnosed in: summer of 1997
I live in: the US
I am married/have a partner: yes
I have kids: 2
My kids have AS: yes, one is PDD-NOS
I would like to have a relationship because: I already have one!
I don't want a relationship because: Wouldn't mind having friends.
I have other medical/health issues: I don't see this as relevant.
One more thing I want to add: I'm confused about this personal information we're supposed to give here!


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04 Apr 2007, 1:12 pm

I'm guessing it's sort of small talk. Delete your post if you're uncomfortable with it. Maybe it's an enthnogrphy in progress. I dunno ask.


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04 Apr 2007, 1:34 pm

postpaleo wrote:
I'm guessing it's sort of small talk. Delete your post if you're uncomfortable with it. Maybe it's an enthnogrphy in progress. I dunno ask.


Ha, ha. My guess was potential mates. :lol:


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04 Apr 2007, 4:06 pm

SeriousGirl wrote:
One more thing I want to add: I'm confused about this personal information we're supposed to give here!


It is not information that your supposed or required to give, it's my curiocity. I was reading the other Dino-Aspie forum and I was just curious who everyone is. I am interested in astrology so I thought to ask about birthdays, I am interested to see how you all, who are around my age, found out about having AS, etc. And yes, I am also curious to se if there are others like me who might be looking for a possible friend/mate...

I hope this answers your questions. No demographics, no research, no data... maybe just a date! (If one gets lucky, LOL)

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05 Apr 2007, 2:26 am

My age is: 46
My birthday is on: Oct. 15
My diagnosis is: Aspergers
I was diagnosed in: Feb 2007
I live in: Bellingham, WA, USA
I am married/have a partner: Never married
I have kids: Nope.
My kids have AS: My nephew has ADD, but he acts Aspie.
I would like to have a relationship because: I think it might be nice, and sometimes I get painfully lonely, but we'll see.
I don't want a relationship because: It's a lot of work, and I take a lot of work.
I have other medical/health issues: Yeah, but they have resolved or are controllable.
One more thing I want to add: Sometimes I am easily confused, and I don't know where I stand with people even after I ask them and they answer me, because people lie to keep from hurting one's feelings or to avoid confrontation. I also play too much Spider Solitaire.

Oh, look, a chicken.

:nerdy: 8)



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05 Apr 2007, 2:36 am

I haven't posted in the dino cafe.

I turn 50 this year
I am dxed with AS, about age 42
I live in Australia
I'm childfree. Have 2 whippets
Don't have a relationship, I learnt to like being alone and I suspect relationships are too complex for me.
At 50 people generally do have other health issues.
One more thing I want to add: I smoke a lot and I'm a christian.



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05 Apr 2007, 9:10 am

My age is: 42
My birthday: November 10, 1964
Diagnosis: No formal diagnosis, but suspect AS
Diagnosed in: N/A
I live in: Central Coast of California
I am married/have a partner: No
I have kids: No, just nine cats and a dog
No kids w/AS
I want to have a relationship because: I would like to find a person with common interests and my same basic philosophy of life
I don't want to have a relationship because: I probably wouldn't be good enough for the kind of person I want
I have other medical issues: Yes, a mild seizure disorder, fortunately controlled by medication. I don't think I could ever have kids because of my medication.
One more thing I'd like to add: I love cats, especially striped kitties such as tabbies, OSH and Lynx (Tabby) point Siamese. I had a Lynx point Siamese girl who lived to be 20.



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05 Apr 2007, 11:20 am

9CatMom. I thought you and I had this settled before. If you can count how many cats you have, you don't have enough. I'm going kittie shopping, soon, been once, no luck, going again soon :lol:


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06 Apr 2007, 2:54 pm

My age is: 44
My birthday is on: September 24, 1962
My diagnosis is: AS - self dx
I live in: Alberta, Canada
I am married/have a partner: No (and intend to keep it that way)
I have kids: No (and intend to keep it that way)
I don't want a relationship because: they're more trouble than they're worth
I have other medical/health issues: Under-functioning thyroid (on medication); blood sugar is higher than it should be but not yet in "diabetic" range, and I am actively working to bring it down.


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06 Apr 2007, 6:53 pm

My age is: 52
My diagnosis is: dx'd AS/HFA
I live in: USA
I am married and my husband is my life saver in many ways
I have kids: NO WAY!
I would like to have a relationship because: I never thought i wanted one till i met my husband who is NT - but convinced me to get dx to help me cope with assorted issues and enjoy myself for who I am
I have other medical/health issues: dislexia/discalc.. (the numbers one) ADD. suffered siezures from medication which left me forgetful. I refuse any and all meds other than the occasional tylenol.
One more thing I want to add: I am phobic of cats. I am a Christian and don't like it when people speak badly about things they do not understand. i. e. "I hate Christians." How would YOU fell if i said "I hate gays/lesbians/ gamers or autistics." Get it?


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06 Apr 2007, 10:03 pm

Star wrote:

My age is: (52)
My birthday is on: ( 8) )
My diagnosis is: (self-dx)
I was diagnosed in: (two days after I turned 51)
I live in: (SF Bay Area, California, USA)
I am married/have a partner: (no, can't see anything like that working out)
I have kids: (no; see previous answer)
My kids have AS: (no; see previous answer)
I would like to have a relationship because: (I wish I had more friends)
I don't want a relationship because: (see previous answer)
I have other medical/health issues: (nothing significant)