Did you make a mistake?

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Have you ever ended a relationship and regretted it. I don't mean just that you think about the good times and miss them sometimes, or you are hurt from a recent break up, but you ended it and you think it really was the wrong thing to do, and now maybe its too late?
If you did, what was your motivation to act against what you really wanted?

I've made a mistake once; flirting you without checking your age first.

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Only mistake i've made is not had the courage to ask out girls . i'm 20 and only been on one date

If I'm not mistaken, Insomnia Girl is 18.

Still way too young -

/let's move on with the thread.

I've made mistakes in staying with people too long.

I've made mistakes in assuming that people like me "that way"--when they didn't.

I don't think I made a mistake when I broke with somebody. It was always a mutual decision on the part of both of us.

It's sad to break up with somebody, though.

I can relate to that. I had a few more dates by the time I was 20, but none of them ever went anywhere. At age 48 I am finally learning how to make small talk to women. Hope it doesn't take everyone else as long.

Yes and no. There are times I think about the couple of relationships which I had prior to marriage, and I think maybe I could have done a lot more to make the one work, and maybe I could have overlooked some of the incompatibility in the other one (that was kind of a mutual decision to end it but she prompted it) and life could have been better for a while. Not sure if it would be better today-one of those hypothetical things you will probably never know.

It is possible to get together again with an ex. in the future, I supposed. I have heard of it happening.

My OCD & anxiety got so bad it caused me to get paranoid & believe things were going on that weren't. I got very needy, clingy & controlling as a result as well as accused her of things witch lead to lots of disagreements/arguments/fights so we both kind of decided to break up due in a big part to all that.