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08 Feb 2016, 11:08 am

No! I can't believe this has happened again. I got detained by a policewoman for being drunk and shouting in the street. And she was beautiful. I don't know her name and now she's gone forever. We spent a few hours together as she sat with me in an ambulance while people checked if there was anything wrong with me.

We made each other laugh and when I began to cry she did too. I felt a spark.

This is the 5th time in 5 years my heart has been badly broken. Each time it's involved not being able to contact a woman I want to. I just can't believe this can have happened so much. This world can be so cruel.

But I won't let loneliness win! I'll show people I'm not a loser. Not someone to be laughed at. I won't be bullied forever. I'm romantic, I care, I've got dreams. I was born for a reason and nobody has allowed me to express myself the way I've wanted and tried to. I've never been given a proper chance. But I'll get it!



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08 Feb 2016, 6:48 pm

fifasy wrote:
No! I can't believe this has happened again. I got detained by a policewoman for being drunk and shouting in the street. And she was beautiful. I don't know her name and now she's gone forever. We spent a few hours together as she sat with me in an ambulance while people checked if there was anything wrong with me.

We made each other laugh and when I began to cry she did too. I felt a spark.

This is the 5th time in 5 years my heart has been badly broken. Each time it's involved not being able to contact a woman I want to. I just can't believe this can have happened so much. This world can be so cruel.

But I won't let loneliness win! I'll show people I'm not a loser. Not someone to be laughed at. I won't be bullied forever. I'm romantic, I care, I've got dreams. I was born for a reason and nobody has allowed me to express myself the way I've wanted and tried to. I've never been given a proper chance. But I'll get it!


Do you honestly think a policewoman would date/have sex with a man she's arresting? Seems unlikely. :roll:



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08 Feb 2016, 6:52 pm

fifasy wrote:
No! I can't believe this has happened again. I got detained by a policewoman for being drunk and shouting in the street. And she was beautiful. I don't know her name and now she's gone forever. We spent a few hours together as she sat with me in an ambulance while people checked if there was anything wrong with me.

We made each other laugh and when I began to cry she did too. I felt a spark.


I doubt it was romantic interest. Not to burst you bubble, but people who are drunk are are sometime amusing...for acting silly. However this doesn't mean they are interested romantically.

She was probably there fore the paramedics safety.

She will meet people like this all they time on the job. If police couldn't laugh at it, they would probably get really tired of it and quit.



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08 Feb 2016, 6:59 pm

Stay professional.



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10 Feb 2016, 8:44 am

Just how drunk were you?

I'm thinking you might, in your drunken state (considering it was bad enough that you were arrresting in public), have read more into the situation than it was...


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12 Feb 2016, 2:17 pm

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Just how drunk were you?

I'm thinking you might, in your drunken state (considering it was bad enough that you were arrresting in public), have read more into the situation than it was...


I was really drunk. But that's not something I do a lot. Occasionally on a weekend I will just because it helps me to be less boring and to not be a total introvert. I wish I had a way of being extraverted without resorting to alcohol. It just so happens I don't.

I do see now though that I probably read too much into the situation. But alcohol actually is involved in a lot of romance. My parents only got together because they were both in a pub, where they met, and had a one night stand. That then turned into a long term relationship.



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12 Feb 2016, 3:14 pm

fifasy wrote:
Shaw wrote:
Just how drunk were you?

I'm thinking you might, in your drunken state (considering it was bad enough that you were arrresting in public), have read more into the situation than it was...


I was really drunk. But that's not something I do a lot. Occasionally on a weekend I will just because it helps me to be less boring and to not be a total introvert. I wish I had a way of being extraverted without resorting to alcohol. It just so happens I don't.

I do see now though that I probably read too much into the situation. But alcohol actually is involved in a lot of romance. My parents only got together because they were both in a pub, where they met, and had a one night stand. That then turned into a long term relationship.


I don't think its a one nights stand if it turns into a long term relationship...


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12 Feb 2016, 4:22 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
fifasy wrote:
Shaw wrote:
Just how drunk were you?

I'm thinking you might, in your drunken state (considering it was bad enough that you were arrresting in public), have read more into the situation than it was...


I was really drunk. But that's not something I do a lot. Occasionally on a weekend I will just because it helps me to be less boring and to not be a total introvert. I wish I had a way of being extraverted without resorting to alcohol. It just so happens I don't.

I do see now though that I probably read too much into the situation. But alcohol actually is involved in a lot of romance. My parents only got together because they were both in a pub, where they met, and had a one night stand. That then turned into a long term relationship.


I don't think its a one nights stand if it turns into a long term relationship...


:lol: touché.



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12 Feb 2016, 5:07 pm

fifasy wrote:
Shaw wrote:
Just how drunk were you?

I'm thinking you might, in your drunken state (considering it was bad enough that you were arrresting in public), have read more into the situation than it was...


I was really drunk. But that's not something I do a lot. Occasionally on a weekend I will just because it helps me to be less boring and to not be a total introvert. I wish I had a way of being extraverted without resorting to alcohol. It just so happens I don't.

I do see now though that I probably read too much into the situation. But alcohol actually is involved in a lot of romance. My parents only got together because they were both in a pub, where they met, and had a one night stand. That then turned into a long term relationship.


Nothing wrong with getting drunk sometimes. Even if it's really drunk. Problem comes when you end up in cop cars.

I tend to think relationships initiated in drunken state have a pretty short shelf life. If all it's based on is wanting to bang each other, and not commonality, there's not much to keep it going very long.