Joe90 wrote:
The thing is, with things like depression, some people can't help but vent their feelings, irrationally hoping that somebody will come up with a miracle. Some people with depression feel alone and misunderstood, and they just want to pour it all out to people, whether it's friends, family, or internet forums. They don't mean to ignore advice given. It's just part of some cases of depression.
Thank you for posting that, Joe. Of course, you are right. I definitely was not referring to you when I posted the OP, in case you're wondering. I have taken an interest in you and hope that some of my words have given you comfort from time to time.
There is one particular person in the Haven who is constantly asking for help that forum people aren't likely to give, as that is not the point of a forum - money, phone calls, being their friend, etc. I no longer read that person's posts, but sometimes I even chafe at seeing them in the index. I feel slightly guilty that I am not more compassionate, but I recognize a lost cause when I see one.
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