Joe90 wrote:
I have "very mild autism". I know people here hate functioning labels but really I am mild. And if I didn't have ADHD and high anxiety alongside AS, I probably would be lingering on the PDD-NOS borderline like my brother.
The only things I find hard is anything to do with numbers, focusing on goals or tasks, remembering routes or directions, and too much overthinking and sensitivity to some unfamiliar situations. But because of my ability to communicate my feelings, I can usually resolve problems like this, or just carry on, with a panic attack, then put it down to experience.
I'm wondering if you might benefit from being reassessed? Perhaps you would be identified with ADHD and anxiety, but not Autism Spectrum Disorder. It's possible now with the new criteria and because your first test was so long ago. I know that you're stressed about being autistic, so maybe this would be an option for you? If you are reconfirmed as autistic perhaps they could refer you for counselling or support at that time, to better accept your status on the spectrum?
The challenges you describe all sound like descriptors for executive dysfunction / ADHD. I was just tested for ADHD so I'm familiar with the criteria. "Anything to do with numbers" sounds like dyscalculia.
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