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26 Sep 2016, 11:39 am

I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.



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26 Sep 2016, 12:14 pm

Then I guess you must be full of women.



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26 Sep 2016, 12:22 pm

Why do women date men with traits commonly held to be sexually attractive? It is truly a mystery.

And, of course, I bet you've never lusted over a women with less than average intelligence but big breasts? Or whatever.

Truthfully though, I see people with mixed body types dating all the time. The least attractive trait I can think of though is whining and complaining that the opposite sex doesn't just fall into your lap. Being superficially "nice" is not the same as being a caring and dependable person.



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26 Sep 2016, 12:28 pm

Peacesells wrote:
Then I guess you must be full of women.


Huh?



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26 Sep 2016, 12:29 pm

lordfakename wrote:
The least attractive trait I can think of though is whining and complaining that the opposite sex doesn't just fall into your lap. Being superficially "nice" is not the same as being a caring and dependable person.


It's hard for me though because I have difficulty interacting with the NT world.



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26 Sep 2016, 1:51 pm

john2002 wrote:
I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.


I guess you think you're a nice guy? You just called a whole lot of people "dumb" in one sentence. You're not a nice guy.



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26 Sep 2016, 1:52 pm

Once a woman becomes in her later 20's, she tends to become less into appearance and more into inner substance.

Sometimes, this happens even earlier.



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26 Sep 2016, 1:56 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Once a woman becomes in her later 20's, she tends to become less into appearance and more into inner substance.

Sometimes, this happens even earlier.


That's a bit of a generalization.

I can certainly see why a lot of people here are single. Assuming women are all some sort of shallow monster until a certain age. It's simply not true at all.



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26 Sep 2016, 2:00 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
john2002 wrote:
I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.


I guess you think you're a nice guy? You just called a whole lot of people "dumb" in one sentence. You're not a nice guy.


Sorry, it's a compensatory mechanism I developed when I was younger for when I was left out



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26 Sep 2016, 2:01 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Once a woman becomes in her later 20's, she tends to become less into appearance and more into inner substance.

Sometimes, this happens even earlier.


That's a bit of a generalization.

I can certainly see why a lot of people here are single. Assuming women are all some sort of shallow monster until a certain age. It's simply not true at all.


To be fair, I think most people are like that in their twenties. It's a biological fact.



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26 Sep 2016, 2:01 pm

Of course it's a generalization.

Remember, I used the word "tends."

I've known girls who were substantial even at below age 10.

By the way, it's the same with men...the same generalization.



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26 Sep 2016, 2:06 pm

Even in my twenties I'm finding most people are shallow. In fact I really doubt a lot of people who are "in love" didn't actually settle and are just in denial about it.


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26 Sep 2016, 2:27 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Once a woman becomes in her later 20's, she tends to become less into appearance and more into inner substance.

Sometimes, this happens even earlier.


In my experience, they still want the loud aggressive self-serving types even in their late 20's. Of course, I live in the Bible Belt so being an anti-intellectual jerk is more socially acceptable than being polite and kind.



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26 Sep 2016, 2:30 pm

john2002 wrote:
I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.

And for some reason, those "nice guys" are the ones who refuse dating overweight women. Double standards ?... :roll:



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26 Sep 2016, 3:21 pm

MissAlgernon wrote:
john2002 wrote:
I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.

And for some reason, those "nice guys" are the ones who refuse dating overweight women. Double standards ?... :roll:


Can't tell you how many ads and profiles I've seen claiming to be "BBW" and demanding someone attractive and tall. Even they think they're too good for someone just decent.


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26 Sep 2016, 3:29 pm

Boxman108 wrote:
MissAlgernon wrote:
john2002 wrote:
I have never seen a girl date a nice guy. All the nice guys that are made fun of online are made fun of because they are fat.

And for some reason, those "nice guys" are the ones who refuse dating overweight women. Double standards ?... :roll:


Can't tell you how many ads and profiles I've seen claiming to be "BBW" and demanding someone attractive and tall. Even they think they're too good for someone just decent.

No one should be judged on physical appearance, but everyone has the right to deserve nothing less than a supermodel as a partner. It's only fair :twisted: