Pornography

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Haha I think I would freak out if I randomly found that on my computer as well.

My main issue with pornography etc. is that a fair portion of women in the sex trade/ business have a history of sexual abuse... I don't have any studies to back me up but I have known 4 women in the sex industry (stripping)and they were all sexually abused... plus I saw a documentary about a porn star, and she had been sexually abused. I may be wrong though...

But, on the other hand, I feel like it's not really my business.

That is really the only problem I have ever had with 'normal' consensual adult porn as well.

I used to like porn involving 2 guys for some reason. I never liked porn involving a guy and a girl, probably because I didn't like seeing the other girl with a guy that I thought was hot. But the idea of 2 hot guys together turned me on, like I could imagine having both of them at the same time or something.
I don't look at porn these days though. I guess I've grown out of it.

I think I'd only like porn if I could choose the girls in it myself.
I'm too fussy.

Thanks for that comment.
That's pretty much the crux of the situation.
I know there's something wrong somewhere, but why is it my business, anymore than any other harms in this harmful world?
It bothers me because my husband uses it. Period.
But it continues to bother me, twenty years later.
WHY does it bother me this much?
Sure, I'm a radical feminist, but there's plenty of things to be bothered about under that category. Female genital mutilation. Clitoridectomies. Rape.
Why does this one thing just stick so hard in my craw that I've been choking on it for twenty years??
I really don't know, and was hoping maybe you all could enlighten me.

I have no issues with pornography. I don't care much for it, not as much as when I was a teenager, but I think that's probably because after actually having sex, watching it on a screen just isn't that entertaining anymore. Oh man, I was such a pornoholic when I was younger. I had like eighty gigs of the stuff. Yep... Boredom + broadband = lots and lots of porn.

Wow.
I've spent the last two days on the AS Partners website reading about these NT women's response to porn use by their AS husbands/boyfriends.
I guess those who don't have a problem don't post, but MAN, finally found a lot of women who agree that they pretty much lost their man to porn, even before they met.
It's the objectification thing.
I am SO F'ING much more than the sum of my parts. And parts is what porn is about.
I know, KNOW, with the agony of one year's research, that I am an Aspie, 100%.
Am I really the only Aspie female with this (apparently) NT reaction to porn???
Is it my AGE?? Forty-four.
But I learned about porn in 1987, when he showed me his collection.

i’m a sexual stimmer so i just watch lesbian porn or my own.

I like looking at hot naked guys, but my belief system would equate such a thing with lust, so I no longer view it.