Oops! I didn't mean to start a new thread on this. I wrote this in response to ilster's question:
Japanese was my first language, and my first thought about what might make it easier for an aspie to SPEAK is that a lot of things are implied. You really don't have to use a lot of pronouns, etc. because the listener infers by the context of the conversation. And the structure is very simple, no complex verb conjugations, etc. I would check with the person who originally told you that, though, because I think that she might have only been talking about speaking, and not the written language. That is also why Chinese wouldn't have been mentioned, even thought many of the written characters are the same.