kraftiekortie wrote:
It wasn’t a good situation for either of you.
Did you form an attraction because of your respect for his knowledge and logic? This frequently happens in Aspie/neurotypical relationships.
If he wants to get back together, you should lay out your needs and desires explicitly. Don’t expect perfection—but expect some change (and growth).
You seem like you miss him. But you have to think practically, too.
I don't think I could ever lay out my needs and desires explicitly with him anymore even we just be friends.
Last time when I was trying to talk about trust and honesty as a friend, he got all sensitively saying "does it matter?" and said that he wasn't with me no more and no longer "under my control".