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06 Mar 2018, 4:51 pm

I dunno if this is only in my gym, guys....have you ever noticed that male gym trainers, in general, only voluntary assist attractive young women? I so rarely see them assisting guys or .... old / obese women (who ironically need the most assistance) unless they ask them.

Not only that, I noticed all the 3 of them stick to the same attractive girls, I thought at first they're paying for private sessions but this can't be because they're getting assistance all the time! I knew some of these girls, when i asked them if they're paying for private sessions they said no.

And there's also the touching thing, a friend there told me one of them was spanking some of his usual 'babes' - I didn't believe so, until on one early Saturday when the gym was almost empty, I caught him in the corner spanking one and she was giggling, and I acted like 'checking my phone, i didn't see anything'. And today I noticed one was telling her trainer her leg is hurting and the "Dr." trainer was 'checking' her tight by squeezing it, literally , and she was giggling about it too.

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07 Mar 2018, 1:58 am

Shouldn't you be more focused on your mind-muscle connection than watching hot guys hit on hot girls?

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07 Mar 2018, 2:01 am

^ I can't resist watching this live scene of Animal Planet.

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07 Mar 2018, 2:11 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ I can't resist watching this live scene of Animal Planet.

Can you blame them? Be honest, if you had to choose between helping a hottie who's clearly into you, or some fat old person, which are you going to pick? People are always more inclined to help those they like, and having "chemistry" is pretty high up on the pyramid of likable traits.

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07 Mar 2018, 2:41 am

Sabreclaw wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ I can't resist watching this live scene of Animal Planet.

Agreed. It's not a gym thing. Men will always help attractive women first. Also (I've been told that) it's normal that men stare at attractive women in gyms.

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07 Mar 2018, 5:41 am

But it's not professional, but yeah, I am not doing any blaming here - just asking you guys if you ever noticed it in your gym.

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07 Mar 2018, 5:53 am

I'm not hot and I am overweight but they still offer me help. One guy kept insisting he would train me for free.
Others offered training too although I had the feeling they just wanted more clients.

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07 Mar 2018, 8:56 am

I haven’t been to a gym in years. When I was in one, I was content to do my own thing.

I didn’t give two craps about the personal-trainer/“hottie” dynamic.

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07 Mar 2018, 9:12 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

I haven’t been to a gym in years. When I was in one, I was content to do my own thing.

I didn’t give two craps about the personal-trainer/“hottie” dynamic.

Same here. I don't focus on anyone at the gym but myself.

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07 Mar 2018, 9:55 am

I noticed em offering to assist most everyone at the gym I went to for a short time but it was also sort of an outpatient physical therapy place that was next to the hospital. I mostly just used the treadmill & lifted weights alittle.

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07 Mar 2018, 10:44 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I haven’t been to a gym in years. When I was in one, I was content to do my own thing.

I didn’t give two craps about the personal-trainer/“hottie” dynamic.

Same here. I don't focus on anyone at the gym but myself.

Where’s your scientific spirit, aspies?

Also you don’t need much focus while doing treadmill.

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07 Mar 2018, 11:11 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I haven’t been to a gym in years. When I was in one, I was content to do my own thing.

I didn’t give two craps about the personal-trainer/“hottie” dynamic.

Same here. I don't focus on anyone at the gym but myself.

Where’s your scientific spirit, aspies?

Also you don’t need much focus while doing treadmill.

I don't just do treadmill. I do cycling, the track, yoga and the treadmill.

I'm also confused about the scientific spirit thing. Math and science were the subjects I wasn't good at in school.

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07 Mar 2018, 4:49 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

No I haven't seen this but I don't doubt you have. Most gyms where I am are commercial gyms and the trainers at them are either employees of the gym or contractors. They are typically not on the floor when they are not working and making money. Also trainers here typically are so because fitness is the one thing they can do well enough to profit from, and rents are high here so it's a pay check they really need. A lot of times they are people who decided to get in shape, became obsessed with fitness and decided they could make money showing others how to get in shape.

I actually have only seen a man pick up a woman at a gym here once, in the reception area and it went well. Most people really just seem to be there to work out. I don't go to trendy gyms during peak hours though, where things might be different.

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