How does aspies live with self haterd?

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neptunekh
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24 Jun 2018, 4:42 pm

I want to hear your stories you guys...............

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24 Jun 2018, 5:05 pm

This is an extremely sensitive topic. Please be more specific in your request. What specifically do you want to know?

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25 Jun 2018, 6:24 am

I don't hate myself.

But I do have the occasional moments of loathing myself for the way I am. Luckily those moments occur very rarely.

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25 Jun 2018, 10:37 pm

How do aspies get over over their anger at themselves? I feel angry at myself for not getting into college, getting a job outside of my family and making more friends.

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26 Jun 2018, 12:03 am

You know that moment when you say the wrong thing without even meaning to, thinking you said what was appropriate and get those weird looks? That's what I hate. Situations like that. But I never hate myself.

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26 Jun 2018, 12:12 am

By hating everyone else even more. :twisted:

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26 Jun 2018, 12:16 am

hate, no matter which direction it's in, is just so tiring after a while... :tired:

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26 Jun 2018, 12:21 am

Luckily I don‘t have to live with it anymore.

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26 Jun 2018, 3:46 am

Got to give yourself a break.
As long as you know you're doing your best, that's all that matters.

I feel upset with myself sometimes, for instance when I've been particularly tactless, but if I know it wasn't deliberate I can put it behind me.

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26 Jun 2018, 5:57 am

Hate and anger feels like the only things I feel these days and they're directed at myself, other people, life in general, loud noises and loss of control over one's body, etc. etc. etc. It's utterly exhausting and I wish the hate and negative thoughts would just go away.

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26 Jun 2018, 6:47 am

Do not know about everyone (or anyone else)

But.

"There's a thin line between love and hate"

Quite frankly I hate a lot of things and precious lil "people". Including myself

Love is not morally superior to hate

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26 Jun 2018, 7:01 am

lostonearth35 wrote:

By hating everyone else even more. :twisted:

This is me I really do hate society and most people.

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26 Jun 2018, 12:21 pm

Why don't people just do something about what is making them hate themselves?

Why stay in that zone?

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26 Jun 2018, 12:23 pm

neptunekh wrote:

How do aspies live with self-hatred?

Simple: I DON'T.

Self-hatred is for losers.

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26 Jun 2018, 3:41 pm

Kraftie kortie

Some of the reasons why I hate myself, are in my control

Some of the reasons why I hate myself, are outside of my control

For example, autism causes some social awkwardness and some problems

But some social problems that I have are not caused by autism

Sometimes it is a fine line to distinguish between each group

Sometimes there is no way to separate the two groups

Sometimes even if I know I can't do anything about the reason why I hate myself, I still hate myself

Logic versus emotion

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26 Jun 2018, 3:49 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:

If you couldn't walk because your legs don't work would you still hate yourself for it?

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