Why is it okay to bully guys who have bad lifes?

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Guys who are ugly, virgins, friendless, weird, have bad job, having mental illness etc are always bullied by alot of people.

why do the media, people overall, the left, anti-bully groups not talk about this?

why is it okay to bully a guy who is a loser?

And when the loser guy stands up for himself he gets called crazy/creep.

Its not okay to bully any group, which is good, but bully loser guys is okay, its the only group in the world which the whole society looks down on.

if you are a loser guy you feel bad enough already due to being alone your whole life, why do we have to get bullied by everyone aswell?

and why is especially females who are feminists who are the biggest bullies? how can they call themself good persons with good values and that they are againt bullying when they are bullying loser guys all the time?

why do people ignore that more males than woman take suicide? why is that? the reason so many males take sucide is because of the socially accepted bullying which happens to guy like me all the time

nobody cares. so many times people just mocked me for being ugly and virgin and friendless infront of everyone and nobody even cared. we are talking about adults here. adults.

the fact that "virgin" "friendless" "loser" are used as insults nowdays against guys is just a proof how right i am.

Why do people think that i deserve to get bullied just because i am ugly and virgin? Loser guys are bullied everywhere, offline and online.

We have seen this a lot more since that Incel guy in Canada killed those people.

Its because low status men have no social value. So people don't care about those they consider worthless.

A lot of the feminists you see on TV are from wealthy families and are only interested in advancing themselves through special treatment.

Because the so-called "losers" have so little self-esteem that the don't fight back.

The only thing that bullies appreciate is violence. Fighting back against a bullying is the only way to get bullies to stop.

Yup this. It’s why women treat us like crap and guys make fun of us.

Why do you think its mostly guys being bullied? There are females coming here all the time saying they have been bullied. I got bullied when I was a kid and my early 20's.

Bullying by guys is mostly physical, while bullying by girls is mostly verbal.

Or do I have that backwards?

Bullying by girls is mostly done through social exclusion. Because women are more social by nature, the worst thing you can do to her is to make her a social pariah.

Although there are girls who beat each other up, too. No sources to back that up but my guess is that is that it's not as common.

That may explain why all of the women who broke up with me seemed to think that 'ghosting' me would somehow be devastating to me.

All it ever did to me was enforce the idea that those women were merely "playing head games".

If I had a choice I'd choose physical bullying every time as my self defence is weak when it comes to verbal bullying , mind games etc

I prefer mind games. Physical violence is easy to prove, while passive-aggressive behavior isn't.

"Oh, I'm so sorry ... was I supposed to correct the false claims in your presentation as well as the bad spelling?"

"No, I am not 'ghosting' you; I am just very, very busy."

"You said that I could finish your project 'any time'; that's why I haven't even started it."

People are a$$holes......society not only condones it, it encourages it.

Certainly when I was younger, and probably still now sometimes, I found mind games so incomprehensible that I couldn't even tell if I was being bullied or not. At least with the overt physical kind, even if I didn't know what made me a target, I could tell immediately to avoid or fight back against the perpetrator instead of letting myself get sucked deeper into being manipulated.


The passive-aggressive form is also great for increasing one's reach because it so easily adapted to suit any form of communication. It's so difficult to bully people online until one has fully mastered it!

I meant on the receiving end. As for dishing it out to people , violence wouldn't enter my mind anymore and mind games are a skill that are/is ( 'are' doesn't seem right . maybe it should be 'is' ) never instantly accessible to me until weeks after

Last edited by SaveFerris on 26 Jun 2018, 11:14 am, edited 1 time in total.

I still am a bit slow on the uptake when it comes to mind games , manipulation and narcissists , I'm sure I look like this

I never said that females are not getting bullied.

But the difference is that bullying guys is socially accepted, everyone looks down on ugly virgin loser guys. Its not socially accepted to bully loser women. Its only few people who look down on loser women. Women are considered to be opressed so a women being a loser is not a big deal.

Yeah I think men are expected to make something of themselves and women are just expected to have children so people have lower standards for women. I know our society is supposed to have moved on but our species has evolved to think like this.