23 Apr 2020, 1:17 pm
BenderRodriguez wrote:
This forum is ............... getting more toxic by the day 
im glad you said that
i thought it was just me projecting
23 Apr 2020, 1:58 pm
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23 Apr 2020, 2:08 pm
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Like I said; I’ve never reported a single one of his posts ever.
i think your trying to pull the wool over peoples eyes as ive checked your posts
exhibit a
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......I’ve told you many times to knock it off, and yet you continue in large part Because I have been far too nice to you and not set any sort of boundary to your behaviour. No more. If I read you posting crap about me I won’t bother to engage with you about it, I’ll simply take up a new hobby of reporting your posts every single time. The mods have made it crystal clear over the years that they’re not going to intervene and deal with your attitude or insults towards me unless I report your posts...... .
Think whatever you want. Fact is I’ve only reported Two posts ever. One was a Bea Arthur post a year or two ago, the other was my own post last week that I asked be deleted if possible due to oversharing of personal information I shouldn’t have rambled on about.
Feel free to message any mod/admin for confirmation. None of them have any reason to lie on my behalf.
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23 Apr 2020, 2:19 pm
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What did Ezra do to get banned?
its like bender said "members here who have been following around, provoking and harassing him for years." and goldfish is one of those. he was all over ezra provoking him to no end and doing what looked like reverse psychology with posts like
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......I’ve told you many times to knock it off, and yet you continue in large part Because I have been far too nice to you and not set any sort of boundary to your behaviour. No more. If I read you posting crap about me I won’t bother to engage with you about it, I’ll simply take up a new hobby of reporting your posts every single time. The mods have made it crystal clear over the years that they’re not going to intervene and deal with your attitude or insults towards me unless I report your posts...... .
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says the boy who had to be told a couple days ago to knock it off with his persistent trolling and insults or have his posts reported and risk being banned from one of his few online social outlets. Mmhmm.
Then ezra gets a ban notice that said something like "you are getting the same 6 mo ban goldfish got". goldfish started messaging me and i got out of him that walrus banned ezra and walrus and goldfish talked about it. goldfish says that his ban was for ageism against ezra but you can see in that post how he's calling ezra "boy" so he was still doing what he said he got banned for. i think a lot of people reported him for telling ezra autistic teenagers have the maturity level of little kids or something like that.
Karamazov wrote:
^Don't know, and think we’re not meant to discuss such matters.
walrus can ban me for it if he wants because i don't plan on sticking around.
Is EzraS a girl?
To the best of my knowledge EzraS has never identified as female. As a member of the LGBT community, I make an effort Not to misgender anyone. Apologies if a mistake was made.I cited my source then and will repeat it now:
Dr. Tony Attwood’s “The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome,” textbook states that those on the spectrum tend to have an average emotional maturity rate of 2/3rds their chronological age. This makes an 18 year old on the spectrum’s emotional maturity ~that of a 12 year old, and mine at 37 ~that of a ~25 year old.
As an aside: This is a great explanation for a part of why I tend to get along better with people 20-25 than I do people my own age. It’s either younger Or older - I have a lot of friends ranging from their mid 40’s to senior years vs very few in my peer group.
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23 Apr 2020, 2:28 pm
lliam420 wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Throwaway2 wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Like I said; I’ve never reported a single one of his posts ever.
i think your trying to pull the wool over peoples eyes as ive checked your posts
exhibit a
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......I’ve told you many times to knock it off, and yet you continue in large part Because I have been far too nice to you and not set any sort of boundary to your behaviour. No more. If I read you posting crap about me I won’t bother to engage with you about it, I’ll simply take up a new hobby of reporting your posts every single time. The mods have made it crystal clear over the years that they’re not going to intervene and deal with your attitude or insults towards me unless I report your posts...... .
Think whatever you want. Fact is I’ve only reported Two posts ever. One was a Bea Arthur post a year or two ago, the other was my own post last week that I asked be deleted if possible due to oversharing of personal information I shouldn’t have rambled on about.
Feel free to message any mod/admin for confirmation. None of them have any reason to lie on my behalf.
so were you lying when you told ezra " If I read you posting crap about me I won’t bother to engage with you about it, I’ll simply take up a new hobby of reporting your posts every single time." or are you lying now? or just lying altogether? you and walrus sure did a good job of dragging each other into ezras ban and making it stink to high heaven. i would write alex about it if ezra still wanted to be a member.
EzraS had yet to post anything about or towards me that I felt was report worthy.
I’ve made it crystal clear to you that I had nothing to do with EzraS’ ban and was not aware of it until after it had happened.
If EzraS posts got him banned, and it seems they have, then that’s on whatever EzraS posted and no one else.
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23 Apr 2020, 2:34 pm
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goldfish21 wrote:
I cited my source then and will repeat it now:
Dr. Tony Attwood’s “The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome,” textbook states that those on the spectrum tend to have an average emotional maturity rate of 2/3rds their chronological age. This makes an 18 year old on the spectrum’s emotional maturity ~that of a 12 year old, and mine at 37 ~that of a ~25 year old.
As an aside: This is a great explanation for a part of why I tend to get along better with people 20-25 than I do people my own age. It’s either younger Or older - I have a lot of friends ranging from their mid 40’s to senior years vs very few in my peer group.
correct me if im wrong
you got banned for citing a source and applying it to a member
you are now citing this source again and still applying it to this member
Fake news.
I applied it to a chronological age and also to myself, because it is a fact and applicable to both every bit as much today as any other time I’ve referenced it.
This is not a fabrication from goldfish’s mind. This is a fact printed in an Autism textbook written by an expert Doctor of Psychology.
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23 Apr 2020, 2:38 pm
Also worthy of mention: It’s ironic if anyone here thinks this particular mod is pro goldfish and was somehow conducting his moderating work on my behalf. This particular mod is the only one I’ve ever really clashed with, some ~7 years ago for ~the same reason I’ve butted heads with EzraS, and then we’ve pretty much ignored each other since.
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23 Apr 2020, 2:43 pm
23 Apr 2020, 2:46 pm
lliam420 wrote:
and alex isn't around and doesn't answer his messages so since the cat is away there are no repercussions.
I noticed that this discussion has just been reported and won't last much longer - please send our best wishes to Ezra
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23 Apr 2020, 2:53 pm
Throwaway2 wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Throwaway2 wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
I cited my source then and will repeat it now:
Dr. Tony Attwood’s “The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome,” textbook states that those on the spectrum tend to have an average emotional maturity rate of 2/3rds their chronological age. This makes an 18 year old on the spectrum’s emotional maturity ~that of a 12 year old, and mine at 37 ~that of a ~25 year old.
As an aside: This is a great explanation for a part of why I tend to get along better with people 20-25 than I do people my own age. It’s either younger Or older - I have a lot of friends ranging from their mid 40’s to senior years vs very few in my peer group.
correct me if im wrong
you got banned for citing a source and applying it to a member
you are now citing this source again and still applying it to this member
Fake news.
I applied it to a chronological age and also to myself, because it is a fact and applicable to both every bit as much today as any other time I’ve referenced it.
This is not a fabrication from goldfish’s mind. This is a fact printed in an Autism textbook written by an expert Doctor of Psychology.
the fact uses the word 'tend' not 'all'
referring to yourself in third person
quoting trump
you are the worst kind of bully
Would you prefer I said “on average,” or “typically,” or some other phrasing instead of the word “tend,” to convey Dr. Tony Attwood’s teaching?
I don’t see any real difference since the net result is the same meaning.He’s pretty clear in his writing that it is an approximation, not a precise algebraic formula. Some will be somewhat less mature than that, and others more so, but people on the spectrumtend to have an emotional maturity of approximately 2/3rds their chronological age.
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23 Apr 2020, 3:02 pm
lliam420 wrote:
Karamazov wrote:
^Don't know, and think we’re not meant to discuss such matters.
walrus can ban me for it if he wants because i don't plan on sticking around.
Well, before you depart: please say hi to Ezra and convey my positive hopes for his future.
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23 Apr 2020, 3:02 pm
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Also worthy of mention: It’s ironic if anyone here thinks this particular mod is pro goldfish and was somehow conducting his moderating work on my behalf. This particular mod is the only one I’ve ever really clashed with, some ~7 years ago for ~the same reason I’ve butted heads with EzraS, and then we’ve pretty much ignored each other since.
right walrus mentioned you in ezras ban notice and you two talked about it but theres nothing going on with that between you two. you sure know how to contradict yourself. and you were calling ezra a boy because hes not a girl not because it had anything to with ageism and its all fake news
If walrus mentioned me to EzraS my best guess is because EzraS campaigned for my banning in the past. You’d have to ask walrus about that.
What part of “I was not aware of EzraS ban until after it had happened,” do you not understand?
Nor did I discuss any such potential ban with anyone prior to his ban.I have not contradicted myself. Read again if you’ve lost track.
18 year olds are boys and girls, Very Few can be considered men or women. Even song lyrics say “high school boys and high school girls,” not “high school men and high school women.”*
*I graduated from high school at age 17 But was among the youngest in my class.
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