Dear_one wrote:
As a houseguest, I can't really relax if people are out there waiting for me to finish my "alone time." Maybe I should claim to be working on something that can't be interrupted (that they can relate to.)
Exactly. I know just how you feel. I always bring "work" to do. When I was younger, I could go running. In my most recent experience of staying with people, I left the house to pick up some supplies needed for work and was gone for about 3 hours, sitting in a diner. I am just too old to care anymore or to exhaust what energy I have meeting others' expectations.
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