auntblabby wrote:
i'm a little boy in a big boy body.
Ditto. I think if I were to actually grow up, I'd risk boring everyone even more. I'm strangely enthusiastic about mundane things or ugly machines, if they're well engineered. I also have several compelling biological reasons not to act my age, to do so would just be dishonest. I don't know much about my current health because the default option when I ask for medical help is throwing me in the loony bin, so I'd rather introduce some spontaneity & wonder instead of developing an unhealthy fixation on money & status. I spent so much time being drilled on science & technology as a kid that I subconsciously decided not to stop being a kid.
People getting close to me is rare. It takes years & years for me to trust anyone at all so I feel like I'm failing this person if I can't teach her some of my trade secrets & best practices. I'd rather be handy than merely capable. Nobody really bothers with me unless there's something we need to work through & even then we still put it off, because they're confused & I'm shy. I'm a fairly decent shoulder to lean on so I wish everyone would take advantage of that IRL; I've seen a LOT of scary stuff in my life & I find myself compelled to share some coping strategies & the like. The hard part of that is making myself socially available enough for anyone to contact me in square one.
The only alternative to that is being left in a box full of machines for decades earning money for no one. I want to be kinder than that.
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