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Kitty4670
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02 Jan 2019, 5:59 pm

Someone wants a relationship with me :D :heart: :heart: :heart:


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02 Jan 2019, 6:07 pm

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I’m So Excited
And you just can't hide it!


Congratulations!



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02 Jan 2019, 8:33 pm

Tell us about the guy.



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02 Jan 2019, 8:38 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
Someone wants a relationship with me :D :heart: :heart: :heart:

What kind of relationship?


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02 Jan 2019, 8:47 pm

Please be careful


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02 Jan 2019, 9:25 pm

Congratulations. :) I know it’s hard, but please try not to get too excited about it unless you’ve met him in person.


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02 Jan 2019, 9:28 pm

But don't meet him in private the first time.
Somewhere public, with lots of people.
And don't get in his car.
Or meet him at his place.
Or tell him your address.
Research safe dating first.


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02 Jan 2019, 9:39 pm

Fnord wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
I’m So Excited
And you just can't hide it!


Congratulations!


Be careful, she might lose control and could think she likes it.


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02 Jan 2019, 11:40 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Tell us about the guy.


Why do I feel like I’m in Grease.


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02 Jan 2019, 11:52 pm

please be careful and keep your eyes OPEN. don't suspend your caution.



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02 Jan 2019, 11:59 pm

Raleigh wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
Someone wants a relationship with me :D :heart: :heart: :heart:

What kind of relationship?



A man & woman relationship :heart: :heart: :heart:


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03 Jan 2019, 3:27 am

I been talking to this guy for 2 weeks, he’s younger, his name is Chris. We been texting & we video chat for the first time last night. He thinks I’m beautiful :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: I CANNOT believe he wants to be my Boyfriend :heart: :heart: :heart: Is 2 weeks still early? He knows about my Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he don’t care :D :D How much you need in common with your friend that will be your boyfriend someday?


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03 Jan 2019, 3:29 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I been talking to this guy for 2 weeks, he’s younger, his name is Chris. We been texting & we video chat for the first time last night. He thinks I’m beautiful :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: I CANNOT believe he wants to be my Boyfriend :heart: :heart: :heart: Is 2 weeks still early? He knows about my Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he don’t care :D :D How much you need in common with your friend that will be your boyfriend someday?

helps to have a common belief system. helps if you both like the same things. helps if you are the same social class.



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03 Jan 2019, 12:22 pm

Oh, boy...



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03 Jan 2019, 3:02 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
I been talking to this guy for 2 weeks, he’s younger, his name is Chris. We been texting & we video chat for the first time last night. He thinks I’m beautiful :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: I CANNOT believe he wants to be my Boyfriend :heart: :heart: :heart: Is 2 weeks still early? He knows about my Cerebral Pasly, Aspergers & Psoriasis, he don’t care :D :D How much you need in common with your friend that will be your boyfriend someday?


2 weeks is pretty early to start thinking about future boyfriend especially over just texts and one video call. I have been in a similar situation before, it didn't end well.

He seems pretty okay with all of the things you told him, did he share similar things with you because if not then that could be a problem. The fact that he seems totally okay with what you told him seems odd.

Be careful, having a person that you feel you connect with is awesome just don't get so invested that you blind yourself to the things happening around you.