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17 May 2019, 9:33 am

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I sat through a talk once where the guy went on a tirade against birth control pills. Somehow birth control pills are everything that’s wrong with the world today...
D'you mean about how the BCP allowed women to choose when and if they would have children, and thus free them to pursue other interests outside the home, including lucrative careers of their own, which would also enable them to live independently of men and not have to submit to the "King of His Castle" and defer to his decisions in all matters, instead of thinking for themselves, making their own decisions, and leaving men out in the cold?

The biggest complaints that fundies have against the BCP is that it grants women autonomy over their own bodies, and eventually their own lives, without the need of male protection and support. To those fundies, without men to control them, women will run wild, live dangerously, engage in immorality, and use their economic and social influence to disrupt and tear down the male-dominated patriarchy.


Yes! Women are supposed to stay at home, clean the house, and defer to the only person in the family of consequence.

Sometimes when a talk would get too offensive I tried to not listen too closely. I didn’t want to run the risk of doing something extreme like throw a chair. LOL

During a talk when a speaker emphasized that people should only separate for abuse if it was “extreme physical abuse” that was to the point of putting a spouse’s life in danger, I felt rather sick and tried not to listen to much of it.

Whew! I’m probably talking too much about religion on here!


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17 May 2019, 9:41 am

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... I’m probably talking too much about religion on here!
Maybe, maybe not ... but the point needs to be hammered home that men remain willfully ignorant of basic human reproduction, and then exploit their own ignorance to enact laws that keep women "barefoot and pregnant" while raising men's children, cleaning men's houses, cooking men's meals, washing men's clothes, and relying on men for their own food, clothing and shelter.


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17 May 2019, 9:49 am

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... I’m probably talking too much about religion on here!
Maybe, maybe not ... but the point needs to be hammered home that men remain willfully ignorant of basic human reproduction, and then exploit their own ignorance to enact laws that keep women "barefoot and pregnant" while raising men's children, cleaning men's houses, cooking men's meals, washing men's clothes, and relying on men for their own food, clothing and shelter.


Women need to have access to birth control options and can’t trust that the man that she is with will use a method properly (or at all), especially in regressive societies.

There’s a lot of willful ignorance because some men choose to believe that they have more control over reproduction than they do when it mostly comes down to what’s biologically going on with the female.

Men who need the knowledge the most aren’t going to partake of it. (Just like members of the KKK aren’t going to watch movies against racism any time soon.)


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17 May 2019, 9:52 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
Fnord wrote:
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... I’m probably talking too much about religion on here!
Maybe, maybe not ... but the point needs to be hammered home that men remain willfully ignorant of basic human reproduction, and then exploit their own ignorance to enact laws that keep women "barefoot and pregnant" while raising men's children, cleaning men's houses, cooking men's meals, washing men's clothes, and relying on men for their own food, clothing and shelter.


Women need to have access to birth control options and can’t trust that the man that she is with will use a method properly (or at all), especially in regressive societies.

There’s a lot of willful ignorance because some men choose to believe that they have more control over reproduction than they do when it mostly comes down to what’s biologically going on with the female.

Men who need the knowledge the most aren’t going to partake of it. (Just like members of the KKK aren’t going to watch movies against racism any time soon.)


Many people who voted for Trump simply didn't like the idea of a female president.


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17 May 2019, 9:55 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
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... the point needs to be hammered home that men remain willfully ignorant of basic human reproduction, and then exploit their own ignorance to enact laws that keep women "barefoot and pregnant" while raising men's children, cleaning men's houses, cooking men's meals, washing men's clothes, and relying on men for their own food, clothing and shelter.
Women need to have access to birth control options and can’t trust that the man that she is with will use a method properly (or at all), especially in regressive societies. There’s a lot of willful ignorance because some men choose to believe that they have more control over reproduction than they do when it mostly comes down to what’s biologically going on with the female. Men who need the knowledge the most aren’t going to partake of it. (Just like members of the KKK aren’t going to watch movies against racism any time soon.)
It's all about who is in control of women's bodies, the men who make the laws or the women who "make the babies".

Dudes, we're just the sperm donors. It's the women who do all of the work!


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17 May 2019, 9:56 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
... I’m probably talking too much about religion on here!
Maybe, maybe not ... but the point needs to be hammered home that men remain willfully ignorant of basic human reproduction, and then exploit their own ignorance to enact laws that keep women "barefoot and pregnant" while raising men's children, cleaning men's houses, cooking men's meals, washing men's clothes, and relying on men for their own food, clothing and shelter.


Women need to have access to birth control options and can’t trust that the man that she is with will use a method properly (or at all), especially in regressive societies.

There’s a lot of willful ignorance because some men choose to believe that they have more control over reproduction than they do when it mostly comes down to what’s biologically going on with the female.

Men who need the knowledge the most aren’t going to partake of it. (Just like members of the KKK aren’t going to watch movies against racism any time soon.)


Many people who voted for Trump simply didn't like the idea of a female president.


I really wanted to see how having a female president would’ve played out among ultra conservative Americans.

It would’ve been a fascinating research topic for a sociologist.


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17 May 2019, 9:58 am

I believe it was more that they didn't like the idea of the CLINTONS.

They've had enough of the Bushes, the Clintons, the Kennedys, etc.



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17 May 2019, 10:04 am

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Many people who voted for Trump simply didn't like the idea of a female president.
I liked the idea of a female president, just not THAT female.

But let's not derail an important discussion with politics (again).

My OP addressed the fact that it takes a professional comedian to educate our leaders on the science of human reproduction, while our leaders are enacting laws based on lies and distorted facts about human reproduction. It also addressed the idea that men in general need to learn more about how human reproduction really works -- it's simply not all about ten minutes of male involvement in coital activity followed nine months later by a new baby. A woman is also involved in the process, and she does most of the work!


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17 May 2019, 10:07 am

Fnord wrote:
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Many people who voted for Trump simply didn't like the idea of a female president.
I liked the idea of a female president, just not THAT female.

But let's not derail an important discussion with politics (again).

My OP addressed the fact that it takes a professional comedian to educate our leaders on the science of human reproduction, while our leaders are enacting laws based on lies and distorted facts about human reproduction. It also addressed the idea that men in general need to learn more about how human reproduction really works -- it's simply not all about ten minutes of male involvement in coital activity followed nine months later by a new baby. A woman is also involved in the process, and she does most of the work!


It’s not uncommon for a man to think that after a particularly satisfying sexual encounter (for him anyway) that he probably got the woman pregnant, so her role is viewed as passive.


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17 May 2019, 10:21 am

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It's not uncommon for a man to think that after a particularly satisfying sexual encounter (for him anyway) that he probably got the woman pregnant, so her role is viewed as passive.
It is likely very common that because he performed most of the coital activity while "she just laid there", he views her role as passive. Men are rather conceited that way -- a quarterback running 50 yards to score the winning touchdown thinks he's THE hero, while completely ignoring his blockers on the field.

"Look a what I've done! I did it! Me! It's all about ME!" ... and then you're expected to stand up and cheer ...


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17 May 2019, 10:23 am

I feel we are going back to the 1800's and beyond. Women would get in trouble for having a stillborn or having a miscarriage and be hung for it. Losing a baby is tragic so the last thing a woman would want is being told it's their fault and having to go through an investigation to prove they didn't kill their baby.

This is 2019, why are we going back in time?

I am glad Oregon did not pass this bill.


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17 May 2019, 10:32 am

I got 3 out of 6 which on the “test” which is a failing grade


Formal sex education was in 5th grade. This was 1968 or so. The boys and girls were separated and sworn to secrecy. There was no reason for this,there was a film with cartoon drawings that resembled nothing resembling reality. As mentioned by Fnord high school biology was not sexual. I do not think there was formal women’s studies programs when I went to college in the late 70s but there was sex, relationship, marriage courses that I understand were explicit and for women. Sex “education” for guys was word of mouth, porn films, magazines and book sized letters magazines(anybody remember Penthouse forum?). While the letters magazines were explicit it was mostly guys recounting conquests although once in awhile there was serious discussions.

If sex “education” was that bad in the New York area I can imagine how bad it was when the senators were growing up in rural and bible belt areas. At least in “enlightened” New York porn FWIW was available in the back of most Newsstands and magazine stores, that was probably not true elsewhere and not true when Sanders grew up.

Back on topic I hope Row v Wade is not overturned. While I am concerned about eugenics of autistics the decision to abort is best left to people who have at least some clue because they have lived in a female body their whole lives. The key here is to continue to chip away at the stigmas. If abortion is outlawed and a way to predict who is autistic is found and the stigmas remain autistics will be aborted in the back allies or murdered after birth. My mom talks about midwives throwing “deformed” babies in the garbage. This was not some third world country or the bible belt but Brooklyn, New York in the 1940s.


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17 May 2019, 10:39 am

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I got 3 out of 6 which on the “test” which is a failing grade


Formal sex education was in 5th grade. This was 1968 or so. The boys and girls were separated and sworn to secrecy. There was no reason for this there was a film with cartoon drawings that resembled nothing resembling reality. As mentioned by Fnord high school biology was not sexual. I do not think there was formal women’s studies programs when I went to college in the late 70s but there was sex, relationship, marriage courses that I understand were explicit and for women. Sex “education” for guys was word of mouth, porn films, magazines and book sized letters magazines(anybody remember Penthouse forum?). While the letters magazines were explicit it was mostly guys recounting conquests although once in awhile there was serious discussions.

If sex “education” was that bad in the New York area I can imagine how bad it was when the senators were growing up in rural and bible belt areas. At least in “enlightened” New York porn FWIW was available in the back of most Newsstands and magazine stores, that was probably not true elsewhere and not true when Sanders grew up.

Back on topic I hope Row v Wade is not overturned. While I am concerned about eugenics of autistics the decision to abort is best left to people who have at least some clue because they have lived in a female body their whole lives. The key here is to continue to chip away at the stigmas. If abortion is outlawed and a way to predict who is autistic is found and the stigmas remain autistics will be aborted in the back allies or murdered after birth. My mom talks about midwives throwing “deformed” babies in the garbage. This was not some third world country or the bible belt but Brooklyn, New York in the 1940s.


I had a very basic sex ed class in 5th grade (that sounds a lot like yours) and homeschooled after that, so I didn’t have much sex education, either.

When I asked my mom what “masturbation” was, she blushed and just said that it was “really, really bad.” - Funny but partially off-topic factoid.

Edited to add: To have greater equality between the sexes, a decent sex education is vital. Different components that make up female reproductive health are often viewed as “gross” or aren’t understood to have the importance they deserve in reproduction. Having negative attitudes towards the things that make us different isn’t going to contribute to positive attitudes towards our gender in general.


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17 May 2019, 11:34 am

Wow, you guys are in trouble. There must not be much emphasis on critical thinking in the US primary and secondary education...

We had a similar heartbeat rule here based on the 1861 legislation passed under British rule, but even with that regressive policy ending ectopic pregnancies was not considered abortion, because It's not a viable pregnancy. The 1861 act declared that it was unlawful to "procure a miscarriage".

We were still operating under that archaic piece of legislation (&The 8th constitutional amendment) in 2012, when...
Savita Halappanavar 31 was an Indian woman, living in Ireland, whose death led to the passing of the Protection of Life During Pregnancy Act 2013. Medical staff at University Hospital Galway denied her request for an abortion following an incomplete miscarriage on the grounds that granting her request would be illegal under Irish law, ultimately resulting in her death from septic miscarriage.

Since her death, access to abortion services in the Republic of Ireland has improved dramatically, most notably with the passing of the Health (Regulation of Termination of Pregnancy) Act 2018, which repealed the Eighth Amendment of the Constitution of Ireland. (Source Wikipedia)
This amendment was inserted into our constitution in 1983, while we were still under RC influence, this subsection recognised the equal right to life of the pregnant woman and the unborn, and only allowed abortion if there was a risk to the pregnant woman's life.

So a 17 week old miscarrying foetus was considered equal in their right to live as a
young professional woman who had contributed to society and was in agony dying of sepsis, because of the heartbeat.
When she begged for an abortion she faced doctors that were in fear of prosecution due to the heartbeat and a nurse that reportedly told her that ireland doesn't do abortion because we are a Catholic country.
I still feel anger about her death.



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17 May 2019, 12:57 pm

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Wow, you guys are in trouble. There must not be much emphasis on critical thinking in the US primary and secondary education...
D'ya really think so?

:lol:

Seriously, we ARE in deep doo-doo over here. There are people pushing for more religion-based curriculum because they believe that America was founded as a Christian nation, and that means that only Christian values should be taught in public schools.

And no, it's not the "Love thy neighbor" kind of Christianity, but the kind of Christianity that wants to teach the evils and moral depravity of feminism, same-sex relationships, and mixed-race marriages.


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25 May 2019, 8:22 pm

When I was young, I drove a woman half way across the country so she could get an abortion in the only state where it was legal at the time: New York State. After Roe v Wade, I thought that would never have to happen again.

I am afraid too of the direction my country is heading.


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