How did you find out that you're gay?

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I'm from Europe have Asperger for my example I always was turned active guys that are good physique but on the other hand, I did not like all this nicy nice guys who look girly ( I have a deep respect for woman and lesbian )
But i like guys who like skateboarding even though I'm not skating myself or like outdoor activity, I like nerdy guys I'm a little bit nerdy (and chubby ) myself.

I always preferred male company over women, but have a deep respect for Woman.

So how do you find you're gay could you be gay and still manly?
How you dealing with moral hangover despite those feelings because is a sin?
Update: How you dealing who is in charge in bed
if you do not want to be dominated. and each of you want to be boss xD

Usually one finds out they're gay/bi/queer/etc. when they realize they're attracted to the same gender. I know that's a "duh" statement, but for me, I went most of my high school years never really thinking about girls until I became aware of some gay students and the gears started turning in my head. I kinda had to be slapped in the face with the existence of "gayness" to start understanding it as it pertained to me. (Although I'm really more on the bi/queer end of the spectrum)

Being gay and being manly are not mutually exclusive. Just look at the "bear" community, who pride themselves in masculine appearance and activities.



That's a colossal can of worms. I guess it depends on which religion you're referring to, but as far as Christianity is concerned, it's not as black-and-white as what is and isn't a "sin". Christianity is pretty much split right down the middle in regards to attitudes towards homosexuality, from those who outright condemn it to those who adopt a passive "love the sinner, hate the sin" mentality to those who outright affirm and accept it. For a topic which is mentioned only seldomly in very vague terms in the Bible, it's created such a bizarre schism from denomination to denomination, which could actually be helpful for some: say for example you're a Baptist, traditionally very anti-LGBTQ, there's at least three different Baptist denominations who openly accept and affirm gay members. You could look into those as means of finding out how your specific theology relates.

There are many, many books on the subject which I would be happy to recommend.



Some people are strictly tops, some people are strictly bottoms, some people are versatile. And despite common assumption, there are many, many different ways two people of the same sex can engage in intercourse; there's undoubtedly one way or another which would appease both parties.