Oversexualization in media and culture?
Why is sexualization so common now.( 13-year-old boys having sex with girls or even other boys of their age? Or old women dressed like whores?
Why is sexualization so common now.
13-year-old boys having sex with girls or even other boys of their age? Or old women dressed like whores
I am 33 years old when I was a teenager, it was enough for us to masturbate!
I am for example a homosexual but I do not live with other men because it is a sin according to the Catholic Church
But let's take Poland for example, our average is a little over 17 and more accurately (17.1) years but for the British Isles it is 12.9.
I used to talk with a friend who caught her son, how he had sex with his girlfriend, and he was such an angel, he had such a angelic face, (I joked that Satan was angel too;-) I said that for two, it's better was girlfriend rather than a boyfriend.
She was a bit angry that it trivialized the matter, I have Asperger Syndrome, I sometimes make awkward jokes
But she told me that he promised he would not be anymore and that he was sorry
I asked her if she believed him? They think it's her son. I'm for it, God, you're naive, and that's talking about people with my autism that we're naive
That if a boy or girl has already tasted sex, he will certainly not give up that, just like the Americans and Russians, expect Kim Jong Un to voluntarily do denuclearize North Kores That they even their combined might cannot force him to do it, because he rather "nuclearize" both America and Russia, than give them his toys
Or European politician that promise one thing and do another!
I don’t think it’s any more common than it used to be. If you go back in history, it was very common for 15 and 16 year olds to marry and have babies.
I think I’ve actually seen a study recently demonstrating that fewer teenagers are having sex these days. Certainly, teen pregnancy is way down.
Every generation thinks they’re the first generation to discover sex.
Edited to add: what is 12.9 in the British Isles?
_________________
“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince
lostonearth35
Veteran

Joined: 5 Jan 2010
Age: 51
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,281
Location: Lost on Earth, waddya think?
^ Wearing really skimpy clothes, like micro-mini skirts, really short shorts and midriff and/or cleavage-bearing tops. Something a prostitute might wear so she can attract "customers". Ugh.
Of course, different cultures have different ideas about what is inappropriate. In Middle Eastern countries neither men nor woman are allowed to wear shorts of any length, while in other countries that have a hot climate little girls are dressed skimpily and it shocks the Ammuuurican tourists who don't realize it's because it's so hot that they dress that way.
I'm amused by the fact that in spite of the fact that everything is oversexualized, when it comes to "the birds and the bees" talk with their kids, many parents still find it beyond awkward and difficult.
Of course, different cultures have different ideas about what is inappropriate. In Middle Eastern countries neither men nor woman are allowed to wear shorts of any length, while in other countries that have a hot climate little girls are dressed skimpily and it shocks the Ammuuurican tourists who don't realize it's because it's so hot that they dress that way.
I'm amused by the fact that in spite of the fact that everything is oversexualized, when it comes to "the birds and the bees" talk with their kids, many parents still find it beyond awkward and difficult.
A woman shouldn’t be called a “whore” based on what clothes she chooses to wear. The problem resides with the person who is making such a judgment.
_________________
“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince
Of course, different cultures have different ideas about what is inappropriate. In Middle Eastern countries neither men nor woman are allowed to wear shorts of any length, while in other countries that have a hot climate little girls are dressed skimpily and it shocks the Ammuuurican tourists who don't realize it's because it's so hot that they dress that way.
I'm amused by the fact that in spite of the fact that everything is oversexualized, when it comes to "the birds and the bees" talk with their kids, many parents still find it beyond awkward and difficult.
A woman shouldn’t be called a “whore” based on what clothes she chooses to wear. The problem resides with the person who is making such a judgment.
Exactly. Sure, certain kinds of clothes are inappropriate in certain situations, but that's just a lack of manners. It doesn't make anyone
a whore.
Of course, different cultures have different ideas about what is inappropriate. In Middle Eastern countries neither men nor woman are allowed to wear shorts of any length, while in other countries that have a hot climate little girls are dressed skimpily and it shocks the Ammuuurican tourists who don't realize it's because it's so hot that they dress that way.
I'm amused by the fact that in spite of the fact that everything is oversexualized, when it comes to "the birds and the bees" talk with their kids, many parents still find it beyond awkward and difficult.
A woman shouldn’t be called a “whore” based on what clothes she chooses to wear. The problem resides with the person who is making such a judgment.
Exactly. Sure, certain kinds of clothes are inappropriate in certain situations, but that's just a lack of manners. It doesn't make anyone
a whore.
Also, “whore” isn’t a nice word to use even for people working in the sex industry. Working in such a profession doesn’t necessarily make someone a bad person.
_________________
“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince
CockneyRebel
Veteran

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 118,173
Location: In my little Olympic World of peace and love
There has always been oversexualization in media and culture. It's just that fashions have become more revealing over the past 50 to 60 years. I'm not thrilled that this sort of thing has to exist. I'm not thrilled that most men expect women to be weak and sexy. I'm not thrilled that young teens and women dress in skimpy clothes and than complain that men are looking at them or that they've been sexually assaulted. I'm not thrilled to see muscular young men walking around without shirts. There was once such a man who wasn't thrilled that I wasn't turned on by him and he commented to his girlfriend that I have German nerves of steel.
_________________
The Family Enigma
CockneyRebel
Veteran

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 118,173
Location: In my little Olympic World of peace and love
Maybe some women work in the sex trade because sex is one of their special interests and some men for that matter. Such women are getting payed for doing something they enjoy. There are other women who hate that type of work, but they feel that's the only way that they can be gainfully employed. Those are the women that I feel sorry for.
_________________
The Family Enigma
So women who wear sexy clothes shouldn’t complain if they’ve been sexually assaulted? It’s not their fault no matter what they were wearing.
Also, a woman can be sexy without being “weak.”
_________________
“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince
Right, but in neither scenario do they deserve to be called names.
_________________
“Les grandes personnes ne comprennent jamais rien toutes seules, et c'est fatigant, pour les enfants, de toujours et toujours leur donner des explications.”
— Le Petit Prince
My grandma was married at age 14or 15. And her husband must have been 16 or 17?
But that was accepted then and their parents and everyone around them were the same way.
My point is that it’s obvious that media had nothing to do with it.. they saw someone. They met and liked someone ....they married and whatever else afterwards...
And that is around the world for a very long time excpt in larger cities such was the case most places.
The british bigoted evil weirdo Lord Mountbatten he wrote in his notes and letters of what he saw in India.and one thing he said was that the girls get married younger because they get puberty faster than in England (due to climate he theorized)
But then ppl like edgar llan poe had fourteen or fifteen yr old brides and it was normal
And if they were so young they wd get married but slowly phase out of the family homes.. so was climate to blame or media or was it just a natural progression of life?
I just think it’s natural but the repercussions are vast and therefore it is best to wait till those kids get older
_________________
Take defeat as an urge to greater effort.
-Napoleon Hill
But that was accepted then and their parents and everyone around them were the same way.
My point is that it’s obvious that media had nothing to do with it.. they saw someone. They met and liked someone ....they married and whatever else afterwards...
And that is around the world for a very long time excpt in larger cities such was the case most places.
The british bigoted evil weirdo Lord Mountbatten he wrote in his notes and letters of what he saw in India.and one thing he said was that the girls get married younger because they get puberty faster than in England (due to climate he theorized)
But then ppl like edgar llan poe had fourteen or fifteen yr old brides and it was normal
And if they were so young they wd get married but slowly phase out of the family homes.. so was climate to blame or media or was it just a natural progression of life?
I just think it’s natural but the repercussions are vast and therefore it is best to wait till those kids get older
There is substantial evidence to suggest that Louis Mountbatten was a pedophile.
_________________
Forever gone
Sorry I ever joined
Why is sexualization so common now.
13-year-old boys having sex with girls or even other boys of their age? Or old women dressed like whores

I am 33 years old when I was a teenager, it was enough for us to masturbate!
I am for example a homosexual but I do not live with other men because it is a sin according to the Catholic Church

But let's take Poland for example, our average is a little over 17 and more accurately (17.1) years but for the British Isles it is 12.9.
I used to talk with a friend who caught her son, how he had sex with his girlfriend, and he was such an angel, he had such a angelic face, (I joked that Satan was angel too;-) I said that for two, it's better was girlfriend rather than a boyfriend.
She was a bit angry that it trivialized the matter, I have Asperger Syndrome, I sometimes make awkward jokes
But she told me that he promised he would not be anymore and that he was sorry
I asked her if she believed him? They think it's her son. I'm for it, God, you're naive, and that's talking about people with my autism that we're naive

That if a boy or girl has already tasted sex, he will certainly not give up that, just like the Americans and Russians, expect Kim Jong Un to voluntarily do denuclearize North Kores


Or European politician that promise one thing and do another!

The way you phrase the question and other things you write, like your choice to not act out your sex drive due to catholicism let me assume you are living with a set of moral beliefs which is no longer that of some parts of the society you live in.
Personally, I don't have objections to consensual intercourse between teenagers who have had sex education - and use contraception. I do think thirteen year olds are too young to make an informed decision on whether to make and care for another human.
_________________
I can read facial expressions. I did the test.
But that was accepted then and their parents and everyone around them were the same way.
My point is that it’s obvious that media had nothing to do with it.. they saw someone. They met and liked someone ....they married and whatever else afterwards...
And that is around the world for a very long time excpt in larger cities such was the case most places.
The british bigoted evil weirdo Lord Mountbatten he wrote in his notes and letters of what he saw in India.and one thing he said was that the girls get married younger because they get puberty faster than in England (due to climate he theorized)
But then ppl like edgar llan poe had fourteen or fifteen yr old brides and it was normal
And if they were so young they wd get married but slowly phase out of the family homes.. so was climate to blame or media or was it just a natural progression of life?
I just think it’s natural but the repercussions are vast and therefore it is best to wait till those kids get older
There is substantial evidence to suggest that Louis Mountbatten was a pedophile.
That disregards the rest of my post... in India regardless of religiOn ppl married young and there was no media influencing them . It happened in England too. I mean around the world before any britney spears videos and whatnot. So I just think people do what they do its just not smart
_________________
Take defeat as an urge to greater effort.
-Napoleon Hill
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgc_LRjlbTU
"Sex Sells"; Well, 'Father Tribal God Shadow" 'Knows Best'; the Place of our Reptile Brain that is Hot on Survival for
the Fight or Flight Instinct and the 'Rights' to Reproduction for Basic Survival for most any Species to Propagate.
Trivia Note: There are Virgin Births Among Magnificent Sharks Asexually Reproducing as So Far one of Nature
in Balance (God's) Most Favorite Creatures with the Staying Force; the Power of Survival for 420 Million Years
now where a New Kind of 'Apex' Predator arises US Who is 'smart enough' to destroy the only Home it has.
Duh
Just
Duh
Where is the
'Great White Shark Hope' when you need it.
With Humans, Emotional Attachment that is Achieved through Culture in All Kinds of Additives to Beat the
HeART through All the Arts of Love Coloring The Shine of Eyes and Glistening Smiles; God Yes, Sex Sells
With or Without 'the Capital of Money', Sex Sells but with the Motivation to Make Money Basic Instincts
Rule; Yes, becomes a Common Rule Inherent to the Largest Target Audience that includes Humans
Most all With Parts ruled More By Instincts of Emotions and Senses than any Reason be it
Science or What Comes in the Speeches of Church.
Butt See that's surely not all as the Actual Science of Lust Shows that When Men are Attracted
to Women they become way more Creative and Productive in the continued Instinct of the General
Pursuit of the Survival of the Entire Species; And in Feelings and Senses Associated, overall, Women
Become More Cooperative, Instinctually Greater Showing their Nurturing Side to Attract a Mate this way
they are lusting for in their own Unique 'Special Ways' too.
Everything About Lust Spells Human Life; Once again, ranging from Creativity, Productivity, and Basic
Human Cooperation for an Entire Village to Raise a child too; Of course, Most all Religions and Other
Stories that Humans Mutually Bond and Bind Over seek to Control and Subjugate Others, restricting
Reproductive Freedoms as it Is a Huge Carrot and Stick to MaNipulate Human Behavior ALL DAY.
And Oh Lord Now Capitalism Has taken what Drives Humans At core for Basic Human Survival
by Instinct to an even more increasing Max as what was a Turn-on Yesterday no longer works;
And More may be required to make a Sell tomorrow; as Instant Gratification is still just not what
Humans Are Evolved for and other Animals too as Intermittent Gratification is a Greatest Reward of all
as far as what Makes Us Feel Good and Keeps Us Feeling and Sensing Good inside once we Find What
We Want to have to Seek through Challenges to Find what Feels and Senses Still Good Again without
Becoming Over-Satiated and Just plain Apathetic about most all stuff life; yuck, apathetic just s88ks.
It's Ironic that Seeing More Sexually Related Stuff decreases Fertility but the answer is simple;
What You 'See'/Feel/Sense too much of Habituates Just passing away like Death as Life.
It's True; Hidden Treasures for Seeking
Are Greatest Pleasures butt with as many
Humans on Earth that We Have who are together
Hand-in-Hand Raping and Pillaging the Earth's Resources with no
Restraint; With the Over-all-Fall-Fail to Instant Gratification Now; Nature has the
Answer already; get back in Balance, or do not, and suffer or enjoy all the Natural Karma Consequences.
All Stuff Associated with Lust is a most Powerful Natural Drug.
Drink too much Alcohol and Life S88KS no Pun on Words meant
but living in this Culture, it's just about Literally impossible to escape a Flood of T and A ON SALE.
JUDICIAL MEDICINAL USE IN INTERMITTENT GRATIFICATION WORKS BEST.
i can't imagine anything much More Stimulating that A Woman Totally Covered Up with Glowing Eyes of Love.
But i come from another place; the 60's and 70's; WeLL it's true plenty of folks from Puberty UP were experimenting
as Instinct Directs/DRIVES a Human Being to Naturally do; and sure all the Curious 'Doctor' Games Well Before that;
Butt;
Belly Buttons were Censored Away from 'i Dream of Jeannie' And No MatriMoaNiLY Attached Folks in the same bed on TV.
God i was Horny then; it didn't matter if there was anything to look at or not; but you see that's part of the 'Sex Appeal' too.
Sex has never been much more than 2 Percent of my Life; and to be clear a Marathon Orgasm will edge its
Way Up to 3 Hours that is only 2 Percent of the Week. There are Just too many other Stimulating things to do;
Particularly, Creating and Enjoying Art; and the ColoRinG Experience of Autotelic Flow And actual 'Fission' that
Science More Casually Describes as a 'Lasting Skin Orgasm' From Head to toe as one becomes immersed in the
Aesthetic Experience of all the Beauty that Art Brings to Life for those who are Naturally
Open-Minded to Experience, a 'Beauty of Art Orgasm' comes this way beyond any Sexual
Orgasm imaginable now; Tears of the Spirit Orgasm of the Soul HeART
Beyond Measure Above more than below. "One Night", one night "in
Bangkok" Is surely Part of Life; but i get my greatest Sunshine
Well Beyond what 'Lies Below'; True, though the Aesthetic
Beauty of the Female Nude is enough for Frission
Alone for me
without
even
any touch.
Some of Us Skip Past the Clothes
of Culture and Go Straight to Heaven now;
That's a whole lot more effort than Just what we are born with at Puberty.
And then there's Romance; So Many Colors with No necessary distance, space, time, or
even Matter these days that for some folks Lasts for Years in a Roller Coaster of Colors more.
i don't have much time to fight; hehe.
But When Necessary, i can and will do that too.
To be Clear Just a Pun of Fun on Words, Feelings,
and Senses too busy Loving for any negativity Much.
Oh, All the Colors;
All the Shades of
the Winds of Love
Dark Thru Light
Bringing a Spirit
Up from Down so
So Much More than
Just an IN and Out or Up and Down Game of Porn;
Or What they are Selling At "Victoria's Secret" in the Mall that Just gives
me a Skin Orgasm of Aesthetic Artistic Pleasure Sublime Beauty as i Dance
by in Heaven Even More.
Heaven is a Measure
Heaven is an Art
More than a Table
Spoon and Less than a Tea Spoon too..
iN A World that No Longer plays by the Basic Nature of What We Are Even Evolved
To Be As A Human Being; if one Listens in the Forest or the Beach intently
one may still Hear 'the Call of the Wild' and Truly Live and maybe even get
to know one's self for real away from all the CulTural Clothes that Suffocate the Freedom of Our Breath.
_________________
KATiE MiA FredericK!iI
Gravatar is one of the coolest things ever!! !
http://en.gravatar.com/katiemiafrederick
Similar Topics | |
---|---|
Pieces of media you like/love that not everyone likes. |
26 May 2025, 10:10 am |
British media personality Sam Thompson is AuDHD |
26 May 2025, 6:40 pm |