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JD12345
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04 Jul 2019, 6:46 am

bmasters1981 wrote:
JD12345 wrote:
Popular culture is a concept that I'm quite dubious about. Many people just don't seem to grasp that taste is fundamentally individual, rather than collective. It's particularly grating when there are attempts to 'assign' a taste to a particular group (for example, if you're male you must like this, if you're young you must like that, if you're from that part of the world you must be an expert on such and such), and anyone within that said group who doesn't fit in with the crude stereotype is seen to be a rabid eccentric or weirdo.


Like if you're in your 30s, you need to learn to like everything that is new and current in television and films and music, and if your inclinations are more towards the past (60s, 70s, 80s), then something is wrong with you (like say, if you're in your late-30s [which I am], and you get more enjoyment out of The Streets of San Francisco from the 70s, than Law & Order SVU of today, some people might think you a weirdo); would that be an accurate assessment of what you're saying?


Yes. The funny thing is that it's generally become more and more easy over time to access such works, first with VHS/DVD/Cassette/CD/etc, then with streaming services. Generally I find that art and literature are the areas where being interested in the classics and older works is frowned upon the least, possibly because they aren't overly 'popular' areas in themselves. Music, on the contrary, tends to be the one where there is the greatest pressure to be interested in whatever is popular at the given moment.



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05 Jul 2019, 4:12 am

Lone Replicant wrote:
What do you do when a large number of people want you to do something stupid just to please them?


Are they paying me? Would there be genuine advantages to me to do it? No? Then they can stew in their own juices while I do something I want to do instead. Life's too short to throw time away on other people's idiocies.



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05 Jul 2019, 5:59 am

JD12345 wrote:
Music, on the contrary, tends to be the one where there is the greatest pressure to be interested in whatever is popular at the given moment.


Why would there seem to be so much pressure to like/be interested in/be inclined to what's popular now where music is concerned?

(Sorry for the late response on what you said before-- just wanted to say thanks for what you said before, because it clarified what I had originally asked very well.)



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05 Jul 2019, 4:59 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
One time, my mum asked me if I realized how many people still hate Germans because of WWII when she was disowning me for wanting to wear a German helmet. I realize how many people still hate Germans. I just don't care, anymore. I also still visit my mum because I refuse to let three simple colours get between the two of us. I'll destroy every wedge that gets between us while being true to myself because I'm the one who knows that family is important no matter which ancestors I take after.

I think that's very nice of you.