BenderRodriguez wrote:
Dylanperr wrote:
BenderRodriguez wrote:
I hate small towns. I'm sure they're not necessarily "bad places" to live in for everybody but for me they would be one of the circles of hell.
Why do you say that?
Maybe I was just unlucky, but my experience with people in small towns or suburbs (in 3 different countries) was that they are very intrusive and gossipy (the nasty and mostly false kind), small-minded, conformist and judgemental of everyone but themselves and those like themselves: foreigners, those of a different race, gay people, those interested in art and culture etc. I'm sure there must be some exceptions somewhere but I'm not talking any chances.
And, as TP mentioned, there's not much to do on top of that.
Same experience here. Big cities are much more tolerant and embracing diversity, people are much less judgemental towards their neighbours.
Of course, there is no comparison to places with ongoing wars or brutal regimes, to be clear about it.
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