Dealing With Annoying Private Messages.

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15 Jul 2019, 9:08 am

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Someone is PM ing me about surveys. I guess he PM ed everyone.
I've already reported him to the mods. We'll see if anything happens.
Teach51 wrote:
Ezra I always say if everyone is nice to me then I don't know enough people.
Well, he should know...


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15 Jul 2019, 11:07 am

Fnord wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Someone is PM ing me about surveys. I guess he PM ed everyone.
I've already reported him to the mods. We'll see if anything happens.
Teach51 wrote:
Ezra I always say if everyone is nice to me then I don't know enough people.
Well, he should know...


Oh I do. Most likely much more than you imagine.



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15 Jul 2019, 7:05 pm

Now I have received a - not abusive but - certainly not nice PM. Does that mean I am finally accepted into the WP community? (joke)

So, thank you Fnord for posting these instructions. Turns out I had good use for them.


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15 Jul 2019, 7:11 pm

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... So, thank you Fnord for posting these instructions. Turns out I had good use for them.
You're welcome. We will will likely never know what the "other side" thinks of this since (1) they aren't brave enough to harass others in a public thread, and (2) several of us have already blocked their PMs.


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15 Jul 2019, 8:33 pm

Why on Earth would somebody send BlazingStar a not-so-nice PM?

She's the Voice of Reason here. All she does is dispense good advice, ply her trade, and play her instrument.

I can understand it more if somebody would send ME a nasty PM.

I've gotten a few.....after reading a few words, it goes straight into the garbage can.



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16 Jul 2019, 1:13 am

Well krafti after having sent you so many over the years I figured it was BlazingStar's turn.



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14 Aug 2019, 3:42 pm

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Is someone sending you annoying Private Messages (PMs)?
Have you reported the PMs to the moderators?
Does it seem that the moderators are ignoring your reports?


There is a solution. One that you can implement yourself without a moderator's help. Just follow the procedure below.

1. Access your PM page.
2. Select "Rules, folders & settings" under "Options" on the left of the page.
3. Select "Sender" under "Add New Rule".
4. Click "Next".
5. Select "is" under "Sender".
6. Click "Next".
7. Type the name of the sender whose PMs you wish to block under "Sender is".
8. Click "Next".
9. Select "Delete message" under "Sender is [sender's name]".
10. Click "Add rule".

That's it, you are done! Now when that member tries to PM you, his or her PM to you will be deleted before you even see it.

I've posted this because other members of WP have told me they have been receiving annoying PMs after they've told the sender to stop, and even after they've reported the annoying PMs (and their equally annoying senders) to the moderators.

Now, we all know how busy the moderators are with more important matters, so it may be a better idea to deal with this matter ourselves -- it is certainly easy enough to do!
I should have added the following warning to the original post:

WARNING: Blocking receipt of private messages from a moderator could get you in trouble with the moderators.


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14 Aug 2019, 3:48 pm

No one has ever sent me an abusive PM as LG. Under my last account, one time and few other times, I got weird PMs that made no sense. They were just accusations. When I would ask them what they were talking about, I would get no answer so they were trolling me perhaps.


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14 Aug 2019, 3:58 pm

The PMs I'm mostly referring to fall under the category of "Harassment" or even "Sexual Harassment".

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15 Aug 2019, 9:09 am

Fnord wrote:
The PMs I'm mostly referring to fall under the category of "Harassment" or even "Sexual Harassment".

:(

The only person I ever got PMs from was a female member I wont reveal her name from the wrongplanet forums, who have been having a long conversation with me via PMs.
Other than that, no one has ever annoyed me in PMs.
There are robots who send spam and surveys, or magical offers that dont exist with external links and the like, which can be funny. But I have a feeling these robots aren't around WrongPlanet, otherwise they would have me fall in their fish net by now or soon.


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15 Aug 2019, 9:13 am

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Fnord wrote:
The PMs I'm mostly referring to fall under the category of "Harassment" or even "Sexual Harassment".
The only person I ever got PMs from was a female member I wont reveal her name from the wrongplanet forums, who have been having a long conversation with me via PMs. Other than that, no one has ever annoyed me in PMs. There are robots who send spam and surveys, or magical offers that dont exist with external links and the like, which can be funny. But I have a feeling these robots aren't around WrongPlanet, otherwise they would have me fall in their fish net by now or soon.
I've received some of those "bot" PMs, too. The most annoying ones I've received either asked the same questions over and over again, asserted the same bogus claims over and over again, or were so laden with profanity and insults that the meanings were lost in the flood of filth.

First I report them, then I block them, then they're gone.

End of problem.


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25 Aug 2019, 4:56 am

I just got an abusive PM from a regular on here who sent me his number.
Then, when I texted thinking it may be a joke, he was abusive in the texts.



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25 Aug 2019, 5:13 am

You haven't reported it yet but feel free to if necessary.


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25 Aug 2019, 3:43 pm

I get spammed with abusive PMs some days but I don't really mind.


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25 Aug 2019, 3:51 pm

I would like to emphasise that reporting messages is very helpful to us as moderators. We cannot see private messages unless you report them, and will act against spam, harassment, abuse, or other rule breaking behaviour. Reporting also helps stop other people from being targeted.

If you have received messages on other platforms then consider whether it is appropriate to involve the proper authorities. If the content of the messages is illegal then you should contact the police.