Idle fingers (and mind)

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So that relationship didnt last but the way I perceive time is different.

Do you guys recognize the feeling? You're spending a lot of time texting, talking to that significant other and when it doesn't last you're trying to fill time with other stuff but there always seems to be too much of it. I seem to have forgotten I had the exact same amount of time before I met her. My brain has simply become used to another pattern. I hope now that this new and now useless pattern will dissipate quickly.

I had that problem in a way except I could think of things to do 1ce I was alone again but I lacked interest in doing them. I've always had few interests but I was fine with that till I got in my 1st relationship. I was mostly focused on her while we were together & after things ended I didn't care about my interests as much as before. I tried to fill the void by trying to find someone else which took a LONG time & I tried to focus on improving my mental health & some other life stuff which were major reasons as to why the relationship ended.