Cant Say Why. But I Feel...

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I have hurt someones feelings and I never intend to do this. I feel like crying. But I hope and pray that everything is going to be ok.

I think if I was an NT or Alistic person (Maybe I am?) would I cope with delicate situations better?

Oh how I am hoping and praying that everything will be ok. That there will be a very happy outcome.

Maybe there will be a happy outcome.

Lets hope!

How have you hurt someone's feelings?

Maybe you actually didn't hurt someone's feelings.

Is something I can't say. But I will say that the person is lovely and I say to this person "Don't give up hope".

Why would saying "don't give up hope" hurt someone's feelings?

I know what you mean, though. I once told someone on WP that, in essence, "most things that are broken could be fixed." He laid into me with curses and threats of suicide.

My point is-----is that a person who is offended by that to that extent just might be "off his rocker."

Maybe. I'm going to bed now. Best I go to bed. Worrying about things are not helping, and I am tired so I should sleep. Also I need to be up early tomorrow. I'll just put the whole situation in Gods hands He knows what to do!

Yeah....it's pretty late where you are.....about 2 AM.

Get some good sleep, my friend.

0211am and about 10 seconds. Nite.

It's 9:04 PM here in NYC. Your clock might be about seven minutes fast.

But that doesn't matter. What matters is that you sleep well.

Your watch is 4 minutes fast

I don't want to minimize your feelings, MG. I know that it rents space in my head when I'm afraid that I've hurt someone I care for. What does help me is thinking about whether or not I did it intentionally. If I misspoke through carelessness, that can still be uncomfortable.

What I have very often found is that they ended up not being as offended as I first thought. I hope that is the case for you.

YOU are lovely too, don't forget that.

Thank you Persephone29. Thanks all.

It is morning here now. Things to do. I need to be getting ready to go somewhere. Not sure where yet. I wasn't paying attention!
So, I am going to have breakfast. No doubt I will be deep in thought throughout the day! Good morning everyone. May God bring blessings to your day! And there's no problem too big for God to handle.

^^This ...

Persephone29 ... very much liked what you wrote.

MG ... please don’t worry. We all have our own path to walk, as I once told you. Carry on, and keep smiling... One more thing ... numbness, I know it well. Though I wish that I didn’t “feel” as much as I do, sometimes.

Thank you.