I mean school cheating.
It was very common in my times, many teachers obviously turned their blind eyes on it.
Yeah, it's probably morally wrong. But...
My daughter's teacher changed. The previous one was relatively young and very considerate. She had some problems with my Aspie daughter that she slowly solved.
Then the lady came this year without any warning. Old, manipulative hag. M is scared of her and I can't blame her. Really, I try to talk to the teacher and she consistently ignores any advice to treat M a bit differently - even on such a small issue as that I allow my children to wear light if they don't feel cold.
No, she knows better, in her world a child can't be trusted with their own internal comfort sensors. Argh
I show her the diagnosis. She still tries to manipulate me into doing all the schoolwork at home. I don't have so much energy but even if I had, M doesn't have so much energy! It's her fault that M refuses to work during her classes and she can't do anything about it because she's consistently ignoring all my advice about what motivates M and what disrupts her!
But she's old and experienced so she knows better. Argh
Now the cheating part. M is freaking out from stress, unable to do anything but hide and meow. Still waiting for another level of official recognition of her diagnosis. And she got a 68 pages book to read at home by herself. Second grade.
She can read a page at a time, getting drained below functioning level during the process.
f**k. I'm going to read her the thing aloud and tell her not to admit it to the teacher.
I would really prefer it otherwise. Actual support. Recognition of difficulties and working through them, anxiety first because this is the most urgent problem right now. But what I get is forcing a round peg through square hole and only trying different kinds of pressure to proceed.
I would really prefer it otherwise. But if I have to fight for every stupid facet of recognition that M is a living individual, not some material to mold... We have to survive. Not to get insane from constant manipulation and denial.
Maybe she's an old school teacher and she needs to be dealt with traditional ways: cheat and lie your way through the school so you can get out, forget everything and find your ways to survive completely independently from it.
I would really prefer it otherwise. I know other teachers who do honest work and expect honest work from their students - but apparently, not Mrs R
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