Guy faked autism to fulfill infant fetish

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17 Nov 2019, 3:26 am

Uptown man accused of posing as mentally challenged adult to coerce babysitters to change his diaper

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An Uptown man is accused of posing as a mentally challenged adult in order to coerce at least one college student he hired as a babysitter to change his diaper for his own sexual gratification, according to a warrant for the man’s arrest.

A warrant for the arrest of 29-year-old Rutledge Deas IV, stated Detective Nicole Barbe believed Deas tricked the babysitters into thinking he was an 18-year-old man with Autism and other special needs so they would change his diaper “to satisfy what I believe to be autonepiophilia/ paraphilic infantilism (adult diaper fetish).”

Deas was booked into the Orleans Justice Center jail early Thursday and appeared later that morning on 10 counts of sexual battery, 10 counts of human trafficking, possession of methamphetamine and possession of drug paraphernalia, court records show. Orleans Magistrate Judge Harry Cantrell appointed the Orleans Public Defender’s Office to represent him and set his bond at a total of $1,503,000.

Deas admitted to investigators he fraudulently portrayed himself as disabled to take advantage of the babysitters but denied he received sexual gratification from the diaper changes, the affidavit stated. He also admitted he masturbated to “diaper porn” but claimed any physical signs of being aroused while having his diaper changed were involuntary.

Deas told investigators he was sexually traumatized at a young age and suffered from depression, anxiety and other mental health problems but that he had not been diagnosed with autism and had no physical disability, the affidavit states. He graduated high school and opened a tech company that develops apps, he told investigators. Deas said he liked to be “cared for as an infant because it brings him back to a time and place where he was at peace prior to his own trauma,” according to the affidavit.

Deas admitted to police he had three other female babysitters who change his diapers.

“He admitted to having paid the women their hourly babysitting rate to perform these acts with him, fully aware they were unable to consent to his ‘role playing’ because they truly believed he was mentally handicapped and that they were doing their job,” the affidavit states.

A college student who the warrant refers to as the victim told police she signed up to babysit mentally and physically informed special needs individuals in early 2018 through the “Urban Babysitter” app.

She connected with Deas, who expressed he was seeking a babysitter for his younger 18-year-old brother, "Cory," who Deas said was “fairly independent” but “on the autistic spectrum” and needed his diaper changed and to be "looked after like a small child would" when he regressed.

The college student babysat “Cory” several times, she told police, and changed his diaper six times at two different Prytania Street addresses, twice at her dorm room, once at the Walmart on Tchoupitoulas and once at the Prytania Street coffee shop MoJo, the affidavit states.

The student had not, to her knowledge, met Deas in person, though she had received pictures of “Cory” and an older person she was led to believe was Deas, the affidavit states. When Deas tried to pay the victim via Venmo, she looked up his profile out of curiosity, and noticed he had received money from a person named Andre. She looked up Andre’s full name on Facebook, and among Andre’s friends she found a profile for Rory Deas.

She “immediately recognized (Rory Deas) to be the ‘Cory’ she had babysat and whose diaper she had changed several times over the course of a year.”

“She stated she was immediately mortified and contacted the Urban Babysitter app to report her suspicions,” the warrant states. She received a response saying Deas’ account had been removed.

Detectives learned the phone number the student believed to be Deas’ was registered to Rutledge Deas, and the phone number she was told belonged to “Cory” was a Google number that was also registered to Rutledge Deas.

The student picked Deas out of a photo lineup as the person she babysat and who she was led to believe was “Cory.”

Deas also admitted methamphetamine investigators found in his room belonged to him, telling police it helped with his post-traumatic stress disorder and attention deficit disorder, the affidavit stated.


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17 Nov 2019, 4:59 am

What a charming story.

But I am not sure what the moral is.



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17 Nov 2019, 5:35 pm

There are groups for diaper fetishists out there. A city as wild as NOLA should probably have one.

But this guy seems to have a very warped view of what being autistic is.


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17 Nov 2019, 8:13 pm

It seems like only (mostly) men develop these strange fetish behaviors ?


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18 Nov 2019, 12:09 am

Double bloody charming. Eew


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18 Nov 2019, 12:13 am

Of course NTs think all autistic people aren't potty trained. :roll:



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18 Nov 2019, 1:58 am

It is not uncommon for someone with significant classic autism to need a diaper. Usually due to bladder control issues.



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18 Nov 2019, 3:49 am

Yeah... the autism spectrum does extend down into folks SO low functioning that they need diaper changing. So it actually is plausible that an adult guy could be so LFA that he would need that service.

So I guess we on the Spectrum cant really get so offended by that part of the story- we cant really blame "those dumb ignorant NTs for falling for his cheap trick" because there are real adult autistics like how he was pretending to be. :roll:



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18 Nov 2019, 4:52 am

"Deas tricked the babysitters into thinking he was an 18-year-old man with Autism and other special needs"

He was pretending to be a Special Needs person. Aspies should not feel like his act was any reflection upon them.



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18 Nov 2019, 5:30 am

LoveNotHate wrote:
It seems like only (mostly) men develop these strange fetish behaviors ?


Plenty of women with disturbing fetishes, too.


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18 Nov 2019, 6:36 am

I don't get how it worked because the article said that the individual was fairly independent, BUT he needed his diapers changed. How can someone be independent and be capable of cooking and such but still unable to change a diaper?



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18 Nov 2019, 12:29 pm

That's a good question. How could he pose as a special needs teen without the help of co-conspirators: a pair of middle aged folks to pose as his "parents" to answer the door for these helpers he hired.



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18 Nov 2019, 12:43 pm

LoveNotHate wrote:
It seems like only (mostly) men develop these strange fetish behaviors ?


For what it's worth, Nurse Angela's sig made a reference to her diaper fetish.



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18 Nov 2019, 12:44 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
That's a good question. How could he pose as a special needs teen without the help of co-conspirators: a pair of middle aged folks to pose as his "parents" to answer the door for these helpers he hired.


He posed as both the older brother 'caretaker' and the one needing help. I guess the babysitter never considered to ask for parents.



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18 Nov 2019, 1:01 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
That's a good question. How could he pose as a special needs teen without the help of co-conspirators: a pair of middle aged folks to pose as his "parents" to answer the door for these helpers he hired.


He posed as both the older brother 'caretaker' and the one needing help. I guess the babysitter never considered to ask for parents.


Missed that part when I read it.

Pretty clever acting on his part. I guess if youre driven enough you can do anything. :roll: