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Angnix
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01 Jan 2020, 8:20 pm

So basically I can't afford my apartment anymore...

My uncle found another apartment and wants me to split the rent with one of his friends... A guy....

The guys been messaging me... And umm hitting on me... (Seriously dude my husband just died three days ago...)

I REALLY don't want to end up in this living situation lol!! ! 8O :x

Maybe I should spend the next month looking for a job so I can afford to stay? Move somewhere else more affordable on my own???

I do talk to my caseworker tomorrow...

Creepy uncle's friend though....... :x


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01 Jan 2020, 8:23 pm

Angnix wrote:
Maybe I should spend the next month looking for a job so I can afford to stay? Move somewhere else more affordable on my own???

That's good thinking now. Will you be able to follow up on the national park (?) opening?


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01 Jan 2020, 8:25 pm

I missed that your husband died. It's sad and I hope you heal and that his soul is at rest.


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01 Jan 2020, 8:34 pm

Darmok wrote:
Angnix wrote:
Maybe I should spend the next month looking for a job so I can afford to stay? Move somewhere else more affordable on my own???

That's good thinking now. Will you be able to follow up on the national park (?) opening?


I need to follow up with them. People's been giving me money so maybe I should save it up to help me potentially move somewhere else.


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01 Jan 2020, 8:37 pm

And if you want to know how creepy, some quotes include:

"I saw a picture of you, you are gorgeous and beautiful"

"Do you have kids?"
Me: "no..."
"Do you want some then?" 8O :oops:

Etc...


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01 Jan 2020, 8:42 pm

Angnix wrote:
And if you want to know how creepy, some quotes include:

"I saw a picture of you, you are gorgeous and beautiful"

"Do you have kids?"
Me: "no..."
"Do you want some then?" 8O :oops:

Etc...

Does your uncle know what his friend is saying?! Wow! Are you sure about your rent? Do you qualify for any type of widow’s pension?



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01 Jan 2020, 8:53 pm

AnneOleson wrote:
Angnix wrote:
And if you want to know how creepy, some quotes include:

"I saw a picture of you, you are gorgeous and beautiful"

"Do you have kids?"
Me: "no..."
"Do you want some then?" 8O :oops:

Etc...

Does your uncle know what his friend is saying?! Wow! Are you sure about your rent? Do you qualify for any type of widow’s pension?


My uncle knows yes... He says this guy is like that toward all girls and to "just ignore it" but yeah...


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01 Jan 2020, 9:03 pm

Don’t live with this guy.

Who is giving you money?



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01 Jan 2020, 9:21 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Don’t live with this guy.

Who is giving you money?


Friends, relatives to help out because I had to pay for cremation...


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01 Jan 2020, 9:25 pm

Definitely save all the money you are able to.

Do you think you are ready to go to job interviews?

I hope you get something with Americorps or a civil service job.



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02 Jan 2020, 2:44 am

Living with someone like that sounds really dangerous. If you want to stay at the place, do you think you could find someone else to be your roommate?



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02 Jan 2020, 7:47 am

Refuse, refuse, refuse!
That's not the life you want.

Is there an option for a small, one-room apartament? Or even a RV? Though, you live in a cold place, a solid building would be better.

How about jobs requiring moving? You used to have to reject them but now you don't.
What does your caseworker say?


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02 Jan 2020, 12:11 pm

magz wrote:
Refuse, refuse, refuse!
That's not the life you want.

Is there an option for a small, one-room apartament? Or even a RV? Though, you live in a cold place, a solid building would be better.

How about jobs requiring moving? You used to have to reject them but now you don't.
What does your caseworker say?


I talk to caseworker tomorrow


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02 Jan 2020, 12:19 pm

Oh good; that's the best option. She should know the best way forward for you and assist it to happen. All the best for tomorrow.


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02 Jan 2020, 12:23 pm

I still hope you get that job with the animals.

I feel like the vast majority of people can work, even with apparent mental illnesses, if they have great knowledge of their job, and are left alone by the bosses and allowed to do their job.



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02 Jan 2020, 12:24 pm

Please inform your caseworker of the actions of your uncle and his friend.

Your uncle may be trying to "pimp you out".


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