Do you find innocence to be the most lovable quality

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16 Feb 2020, 8:04 pm

I find it difficult to love most people. Most of the people (other than family) that I have loved all seem to have a degree of innocence. The most recent being a friend who is extremely innocent, naive and honest. I find it impossible not to love her (non-romantically). I wonder if this is an ASD trait. What are the qualities you find most lovable?



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16 Feb 2020, 8:39 pm

Being open to learning new stuff.



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16 Feb 2020, 11:02 pm

I find innocence to be a very lovable quality. It shows me that the innocent person is a Sweet Pea.


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17 Feb 2020, 3:32 am

What is innocence?
Not being an offender?
How can this not be lovable?


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18 Feb 2020, 5:57 am

I find the lack of assumptions very likable



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18 Feb 2020, 8:52 am

Innocence tends to be attractive in women alot of the time for straight men.

But a big turn off romantically for women in men unfortunatly.

All the research shows women prefer a man that can take care of himself, which is why we autistics have such a harder time dating in general.

Unfortunatly ASD doesnt do sex equality, hf and aspie ASD women do better romantically and find masking easier. Ive seen videos of aspie women where their symptoms are practically invisible in the short term less so in men.


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18 Feb 2020, 8:58 am

I like men who are humble and self-effacing.


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18 Feb 2020, 2:00 pm

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Do you find innocence to be the most lovable quality


Most definitely.


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