Page 1 of 1 [ 9 posts ] 

angelofdarkness
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 16 Apr 2012
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 346
Location: punxsutawney, pennslyvannia

09 Mar 2020, 8:02 pm

I was supposed to go on a date with a guy last weekend , but couldnt due to getting sick and felt bad when I messaged him apologizing about it. He said there's no sweat for us to rush meeting, since we have time. He then started to say when I said that gives us time to actually plan our meeting out, how he dont want me dating other guys, as he's attracted to mentally and physically. He also went on to say how he feels we really click and have similar interests, but how he's scared when we meet he'll mess up. He told me to get some rest and sent me a kissy face emoji


_________________
never give up even if the odds are against you


enz
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 26 Sep 2015
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,067

09 Mar 2020, 8:06 pm

Isn't that possessiveness saying you can't see other guys? You aren't together yet

But yes he sounds interested



angelofdarkness
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 16 Apr 2012
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 346
Location: punxsutawney, pennslyvannia

09 Mar 2020, 8:10 pm

:roll:

enz wrote:
Isn't that possessiveness saying you can't see other guys? You aren't together yet

But yes he sounds interested


I'm keeping my options open becuase of that for now honestly


_________________
never give up even if the odds are against you


enz
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 26 Sep 2015
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,067

09 Mar 2020, 8:28 pm

Good good

you don't want talk to some other guy and he yells at you when you get home for that



Alterity
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Feb 2019
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 628
Location: New England

09 Mar 2020, 11:23 pm

He could just be saying he wants an exclusive relationship and is trying to snatch you up before someone else can worm in. But it's certainly worth keeping an eye out for other possessive and controlling behaviours from him. It seems a bit much to ask of you so quickly (how long have you been talking?)


_________________
"Inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world."


Fnord
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 May 2008
Age: 67
Gender: Male
Posts: 59,893
Location: Stendec

10 Mar 2020, 9:45 am

angelofdarkness wrote:
Is He Serious?
Ask him.


_________________
 
No love for Hamas, Hezbollah, Iranian Leadership, Islamic Jihad, other Islamic terrorist groups, OR their supporters and sympathizers.


Mountain Goat
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 13 May 2019
Gender: Male
Posts: 14,202
Location: .

10 Mar 2020, 10:06 am

I think you are his number 1. :)


_________________
.


angelofdarkness
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 16 Apr 2012
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 346
Location: punxsutawney, pennslyvannia

10 Mar 2020, 6:08 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
I think you are his number 1. :)


What gives you that idea?


_________________
never give up even if the odds are against you


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

10 Mar 2020, 7:35 pm

How do you feel about him?

Do you want an exclusive relationship with him?