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09 Mar 2020, 8:02 pm

I was supposed to go on a date with a guy last weekend , but couldnt due to getting sick and felt bad when I messaged him apologizing about it. He said there's no sweat for us to rush meeting, since we have time. He then started to say when I said that gives us time to actually plan our meeting out, how he dont want me dating other guys, as he's attracted to mentally and physically. He also went on to say how he feels we really click and have similar interests, but how he's scared when we meet he'll mess up. He told me to get some rest and sent me a kissy face emoji


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09 Mar 2020, 8:06 pm

Isn't that possessiveness saying you can't see other guys? You aren't together yet

But yes he sounds interested



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09 Mar 2020, 8:10 pm

:roll:

enz wrote:
Isn't that possessiveness saying you can't see other guys? You aren't together yet

But yes he sounds interested


I'm keeping my options open becuase of that for now honestly


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09 Mar 2020, 8:28 pm

Good good

you don't want talk to some other guy and he yells at you when you get home for that



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09 Mar 2020, 11:23 pm

He could just be saying he wants an exclusive relationship and is trying to snatch you up before someone else can worm in. But it's certainly worth keeping an eye out for other possessive and controlling behaviours from him. It seems a bit much to ask of you so quickly (how long have you been talking?)


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10 Mar 2020, 9:45 am

angelofdarkness wrote:
Is He Serious?
Ask him.


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10 Mar 2020, 10:06 am

I think you are his number 1. :)


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10 Mar 2020, 6:08 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
I think you are his number 1. :)


What gives you that idea?


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10 Mar 2020, 7:35 pm

How do you feel about him?

Do you want an exclusive relationship with him?