Loborojo wrote:
Hi. Thank you all for the responses...which I find to be somewhat clarifying. Especially the last one. Ralph, I never heard about the limbic thing. But what I know is that in furiates a lot of people.
the limbic system is located in the center of the brain. It is like the control center for our emotional responses. What they found is that in Autistic people the limbic system does not develop like it does for neurotypical people. Because of this, we are much younger emotionally than our chronological ages. Many Autistic adults that I know personally have an emotional capacity of between around six and twelve years old. One of my Autistic friends is 36 but her emotional capacity is about 15. That is actually pretty high compared to many Autistics. My emotional capacity is about 4-6 years old even though I am chronologically 53. But the limbic system being underdeveloped, this all happens in the second trimester of the pregnancy, is one of the major factors that contributes to us being so emotionally young.
We also tend to be very young socially as well since our social areas of the brain develop differently also. I am about 10-12 socially. And I will never get older in my social and emotional ages. It is not possible for me to age in those areas no matter how badly neurotypicals might want or need me to for their comfort and convenience.
People who cannot understand this concept insist that we are acting immaturely on purpose just to annoy them. They cannot understand that we have no choice in this. It would be like telling a intellectually disabled or mentally ret*d person that he is acting immaturely on purpose just to annoy people around him.
It is most difficult if you are "high functioning" because if you are, people are very reluctant to believe or accept that parts of your brain actually have not developed as would match your chronogical age. They expect you to match your chronological age in every area of functioning but it is impossible for you to do that. That is part of what the definition of a developmental disability is.
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"I'm bad and that's good. I'll never be good and that's not bad. There's no one I'd rather be than me."
Wreck It Ralph