Can't cope with another lockdown

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29 Jul 2020, 9:55 pm

There's talk on the media of Britain heading for a second wave of COVID s**t and it is really panicking me. I cannot cope with a second lockdown. I've got next week off work because it will be the first time this year for me to have a week off, and I want to actually be able to do something, not sit indoors. I f*****g hate lockdown. I need to see my mum.
Who the f**k are these people still getting COVID cases?

If I lose my job over this f*****g plague then I will commit suicide because I am NOT going back on the dole. I'll never, ever get another job in this recession that's to come. I hate being on the dole. Not happening. But if there's another lockdown then hardly nobody will be getting the buses, and the government can't keep paying to run bus companies forever.

This will end all retail, tourism, travel, services, everything. The government just want to f*****g turn everybody into f*****g screen slaves forever. Yes I know that is heaven for Aspies but not for me. I rather battle crowds in a noisy shopping mall than sit doing everything online for the rest of my life. I hate the internet. I wish it never existed.

Will the economy pick up after these lockdowns? Please someone reassure me. Yes, I am more frightened of losing my job than I am getting COVID. My job is my life, I enjoy going and it is the most Aspie-friendly place you could ever possibly find. Please tell me the economy will pick up eventually.

I know I may sound unsympathetic saying this but I actually despise people who are getting COVID after every all the precautions everyone is taking in public places. There I said it. :x


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29 Jul 2020, 10:13 pm

How will a second lockdown work? Will the government have to pay thousands of people furlough again for another 12 weeks? Will the NHS start neglecting cancer patients who urgently need treatment? It's all very well and good having a lockdown, but the money the government provides on lockdowns has to come from somewhere. My boyfriend really wants a job, he's been unemployed for 7 months and he's hoping to be able to get back into work now that the lockdown restrictions has eased.

The lockdown is just going to f**k everything up even more than is already f****d.


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30 Jul 2020, 6:16 am

i think a second lockdown is the last thing boris johnson wants to do and i think theyre preparation what to do if the cases do spike so try not to worry too much


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30 Jul 2020, 7:32 am

Caz is a bus driver.

I think she’s right about Boris Johnson not wanting a lockdown.



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30 Jul 2020, 8:06 am

They delayed the lockdown in the uk in the first place, hence the spread

What you've said about keeping people at home, behind a screen, is definitely an agenda.



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30 Jul 2020, 11:33 am

I very much dislike the idea of a second lockdown too, I'm being serious this time. You hear of some people complaining that it's the "youngsters" who are ruining it for everybody, but it is simply not true. I went to the beach today and old people were walking and standing *right* next to me and it made me uncomfortable. About half of people of all ages though, the very young, "youngsters", my age, middle age etc. were mostly ignoring the social distancing rules. For someone like me who understands body language, you would think other people would pick up on me standing back but no, they just stand closer to you like idiots. The arcades were open where everybody could touch the games machines - it's mental to me. I think lockdown is ridiculous in idea, and people should be far more hygienic and less selfish than they are in order to prevent a need for one. There, I said it - they're very selfish, or, sadly completely unaware. Especially when they complain about the whole epidemic. I mean, seriously??? People in my own town though are actually far more aware. I'm lucky that way.


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30 Jul 2020, 11:37 am

I can't cope with the pandemic regardless if we're in lockdown or not. I want things to be the way they were before the pandemic.


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30 Jul 2020, 7:34 pm

Lockdowns are the ONLY thing any government can do until we get a vaccine that works.
EVERYONE hates the lockdown, but there is no alternative.
This disease/virus is deadly, is airborne, is affecting EVERYONE.
Where I am(America, California), many stores are going out of business and entire chains are declaring bankruptcy.
The Emergency Rooms are screening patients OUTSIDE the doors; those with possible/probable Covid are treated in a tent.
Seriously.
What the media says about this virus is true; it is bad.
I truly sympathize with your feelings, but driving a bus can expose you; if you are at home, getting an unemployment check, at least you are safe.


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31 Jul 2020, 4:28 am

Sylcat:

1) People taking their masks on and off constantly while going in and out of shops, and not sanitizing their hands afterwards - exposure.

2) People not keeping to social distancing measures by instead walking right next to you - exposure.

3) People actually touching their cards on contactless card readers when all they have to do is hover them there - exposure. My friends do this too and it drives me nuts. One of them insisted we got tested as well and I was like...?! !! !

4) Different activity centres open where people can constantly touch machines or other equipment - exposure.

5) Buses for some reason not opening their windows already and other passengers having to touch the windows to open them - exposure.

6) Squeezing people into narrow spaces in entrances where everybody else is squeezed into and can't help but brush past in order to avoid...what, exactly?

7) Stores like Boots letting someone bleed on their counter and then not wiping it up afterwards, then expecting me to take the items I bought with me after they'd scanned them. Other stores like Tesco with their staff wiping the tips of their noses with their fingers and then continuing to scan items. Yes, both of these happened to me recently.

8) People remain unhygienic and instead of looking right at themselves they decide they like blaming others instead.

9) You're not allowed in shops without a mask, but you're allowed to eat in restaurants yet of course you have to take your mask off for this. I don't know the answer to this.

Locking everybody up for a month and then letting them do all the above again = a total waste of everybodys' time if you ask me.


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31 Jul 2020, 4:46 am

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I truly sympathize with your feelings, but driving a bus can expose you; if you are at home, getting an unemployment check, at least you are safe.



A, I am not a bus driver, I am a cleaner, and I keep the buses clean using special disinfectant that actually kills COVID even after it dries, for the next 24 hours or so.

B, according to statistics, 80% of people who catch COVID don't actually get ill, and I'm very likely to fall into that 80%, as are most of my family and friends.

C, a person who isn't elderly or have compromised immune system has roughly the same chance of dying from COVID are we are from getting cancer or other deadly diseases. It's very unlikely, and very unlucky for those that did die of COVID.

D, having lockdowns until a vaccine is found, which could take years, is all very well and good but people need money to live and where will the government keep getting the money from to furlough half the country?


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31 Jul 2020, 12:22 pm

Joe have you looked into the possibility that a local church might help with some of these issues? I don't think you'd have to be a believer. There might be group sessions. Thousands of your neighbors are going through the same thing you are. Luckily nowadays seeking counseling no longer requires one to actually GO anywhere.


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31 Jul 2020, 2:57 pm

Joe90 wrote:
There's talk on the media of Britain heading for a second wave of COVID s**t and it is really panicking me. I cannot cope with a second lockdown. I've got next week off work because it will be the first time this year for me to have a week off, and I want to actually be able to do something, not sit indoors. I f*****g hate lockdown. I need to see my mum.
Who the f**k are these people still getting COVID cases?

If I lose my job over this f*****g plague then I will commit suicide because I am NOT going back on the dole. I'll never, ever get another job in this recession that's to come. I hate being on the dole. Not happening. But if there's another lockdown then hardly nobody will be getting the buses, and the government can't keep paying to run bus companies forever.

This will end all retail, tourism, travel, services, everything. The government just want to f*****g turn everybody into f*****g screen slaves forever. Yes I know that is heaven for Aspies but not for me. I rather battle crowds in a noisy shopping mall than sit doing everything online for the rest of my life. I hate the internet. I wish it never existed.

Will the economy pick up after these lockdowns? Please someone reassure me. Yes, I am more frightened of losing my job than I am getting COVID. My job is my life, I enjoy going and it is the most Aspie-friendly place you could ever possibly find. Please tell me the economy will pick up eventually.

I know I may sound unsympathetic saying this but I actually despise people who are getting COVID after every all the precautions everyone is taking in public places. There I said it. :x



It all started when they started letting people go back to the pub. Alchohol making people do stupid things and young kids thinking theyre invincible is the problem.

Dont kill yourself though, it WILL all be over within a year or so, theyre fast tracking all vaccination research because they know its wrecking the economy and they cant allow that. One day this will all be just a bad memory. Like the blitz was to people in the 40s, or 9/11 hysteria in the noughties.

One tip though, download a trading app on your phone and invest all you can in gold. That way you at least wont have to worry so much about money/going on the dole during the coming recession.


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31 Jul 2020, 3:42 pm

I don't think counselling will help. I've had counselling before and it didn't help.


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It all started when they started letting people go back to the pub. Alchohol making people do stupid things and young kids thinking theyre invincible is the problem.


There seems to be COVID cases among people that go to pubs, which is no surprise because pubs are social places so it's hard to sit 6 feet away when you want to drink and talk with your friends. People get close to each other without realizing, especially when they've had a few drinks.

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Dont kill yourself though, it WILL all be over within a year or so, theyre fast tracking all vaccination research because they know its wrecking the economy and they cant allow that. One day this will all be just a bad memory. Like the blitz was to people in the 40s, or 9/11 hysteria in the noughties.


I hope so. I just get so panicked when people say that this is the beginning of a new era and that nothing will ever be the same as it was before 2020. Others say that we are definitely going to have another spike of COVID and that it will become twice as deadly this winter. That worries me.

I know there is no cure yet but I'd have thought in this day and age there would be something to lessen the symptoms and help more vulnerable people recover instead of die. They're giving out vaccinations for flu and pneumonia (my boyfriend had one last week) which I know isn't a cure for COVID but a lot of COVID cases turns to pneumonia which is what kills people. Also they were talking about a pill that is cheap and can ease the build-up of infection in the lungs, like an antihistamine. But I haven't heard about that since.


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01 Aug 2020, 12:53 am

smudge wrote:
Sylcat:2) People not keeping to social distancing measures by instead walking right next to you - exposure.
I saw on the CDC website that exposure happens when you're less than 6 ft apart for 15 minutes or more. So people can breathe easier when all they do is just quickly walk by someone. They may have changed that since, tho.


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01 Aug 2020, 1:37 am

Joe90 wrote:
There's talk on the media of Britain heading for a second wave of COVID s**t and it is really panicking me. I cannot cope with a second lockdown. I've got next week off work because it will be the first time this year for me to have a week off, and I want to actually be able to do something, not sit indoors. I f*****g hate lockdown. I need to see my mum.
Who the f**k are these people still getting COVID cases?

If I lose my job over this f*****g plague then I will commit suicide because I am NOT going back on the dole. I'll never, ever get another job in this recession that's to come. I hate being on the dole. Not happening. But if there's another lockdown then hardly nobody will be getting the buses, and the government can't keep paying to run bus companies forever.

This will end all retail, tourism, travel, services, everything. The government just want to f*****g turn everybody into f*****g screen slaves forever. Yes I know that is heaven for Aspies but not for me. I rather battle crowds in a noisy shopping mall than sit doing everything online for the rest of my life. I hate the internet. I wish it never existed.

Will the economy pick up after these lockdowns? Please someone reassure me. Yes, I am more frightened of losing my job than I am getting COVID. My job is my life, I enjoy going and it is the most Aspie-friendly place you could ever possibly find. Please tell me the economy will pick up eventually.

I know I may sound unsympathetic saying this but I actually despise people who are getting COVID after every all the precautions everyone is taking in public places. There I said it. :x


Well is the way you are thinking about this helping you?I get it this stuff is scary and weird. But you're not hateful...you don't really hate people getting covid you're just anxious about it like a lot of the rest of us. This is a weird time but I feel you gotta be careful about getting sucked into the drama. Hate is certainly not the right answer, it never is.


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01 Aug 2020, 3:55 am

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I don't think counselling will help. I've had counselling before and it didn't help.


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It all started when they started letting people go back to the pub. Alchohol making people do stupid things and young kids thinking theyre invincible is the problem.


There seems to be COVID cases among people that go to pubs, which is no surprise because pubs are social places so it's hard to sit 6 feet away when you want to drink and talk with your friends. People get close to each other without realizing, especially when they've had a few drinks.

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Dont kill yourself though, it WILL all be over within a year or so, theyre fast tracking all vaccination research because they know its wrecking the economy and they cant allow that. One day this will all be just a bad memory. Like the blitz was to people in the 40s, or 9/11 hysteria in the noughties.


I hope so. I just get so panicked when people say that this is the beginning of a new era and that nothing will ever be the same as it was before 2020. Others say that we are definitely going to have another spike of COVID and that it will become twice as deadly this winter. That worries me.

I know there is no cure yet but I'd have thought in this day and age there would be something to lessen the symptoms and help more vulnerable people recover instead of die. They're giving out vaccinations for flu and pneumonia (my boyfriend had one last week) which I know isn't a cure for COVID but a lot of COVID cases turns to pneumonia which is what kills people. Also they were talking about a pill that is cheap and can ease the build-up of infection in the lungs, like an antihistamine. But I haven't heard about that since.



To be honest it most likely will change the world permanently, but thats not necessarily a bad thing. I can see the use of face masks becoming a new normal in this country, which i think is great. People in asian countries have been wearing them when theyre sick, to stop other people catching their colds and flu for decades, always thought that should be a common courtesy that people do everywhere. Also I bet peoples general personal hygeine will be much better even after everythin goes back to normal.


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