When a woman rejects someone
Agreed. The opinion that males must suffer from repeated rejection by females quite obviously is sexist.
Agreed again.
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It's the saying nasty s**t part we take issue with.
I don't really want anything to do with this culture of haves & have-nots.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
As long as you are not complaining when people reject your methods as unsuitable for NDs, I feel you have a right to express whatever you feel is right.
Agreed. The opinion that males must suffer from repeated rejection by females quite obviously is sexist.
Agreed again.
Everyone should learn how to accept rejection without getting physical in getting someone to change their mind.
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Not actually a girl
He/him
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Something I've realized lately is that I may have dodged a bullet via not participating in a dating culture with no civility such as this.
I just don't even want to know anymore.
People are less accepting of our autism than we are of the inevitable rejections, women talk about the exact same thing here anyway.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
Believe it or not, but some males, and probably many ND males, in particular, do suffer from rejection, and so the opinion that this is inevitable makes it sexist (given that it is gender-related).
Nope, it's the opinion that single dudes are as*holes regardless of their actions that is sexist feminism. It's similar to the claim that being a white, middle-aged man automatically making you a pig and less worth.
" 'Good-bye'? Oh, I'm sorry to hear you say that; but thank you for being so pleasant. Have a nice day! "
(They usually said something like, "Wait, let's talk about this!" as if they could not understand what had just happened.)
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You are implying that people actually want to try your methods, and when they don't, you will accuse them of various stuff like being misogynists. Given that your advice implies they must learn to deal with NT culture and that rejection is "part of the game", I think quite a lot of NDs actually would not want to take your advice unless they had no other alternative.
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The pain of being rejected is bad (for either sex/any gender/any sexuality).
But the pain of being afraid to say no and being coerced into a sexual situation is far worse than that.
Bear in mind a lot of these guys don't care about what a woman's sexuality is. Imagine if it was a gay bloke, not a stereotypical one but a (I'll use a stereotype here but not the one homophobes go to right away) big bear type. If he didn't understand when men said 'I don't fancy that' or when men winced away from him in fear after he came onto them.
Just wait for the yes.
Doesn't come? It'll hurt. But it's not actual trauma.
Treat women as people & the women you're into as people you really care about and this stuff becomes blindingly obvious. I don't hit on women who I don't want the absolute best for, if they don't see their happiness with me then I'm sad but move on.
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Not actually a girl
He/him
But the pain of being afraid to say no and being coerced into a sexual situation is far worse than that.
Bear in mind a lot of these guys don't care about what a woman's sexuality is. Imagine if it was a gay bloke, not a stereotypical one but a (I'll use a stereotype here but not the one homophobes go to right away) big bear type. If he didn't understand when men said 'I don't fancy that' or when men winced away from him in fear after he came onto them.
Just wait for the yes.
Doesn't come? It'll hurt. But it's not actual trauma.
Treat women as people & the women you're into as people you really care about and this stuff becomes blindingly obvious. I don't hit on women who I don't want the absolute best for, if they don't see their happiness with me then I'm sad but move on.
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