HeroOfHyrule wrote:
Hi and welcome to Wrong Planet!
I am glad that your kids getting diagnosed was helpful for you figuring out yourself.
Do you have a desire to get assessed? Sometimes professionals take adults getting assessed more seriously when they have kids (especially multiple kids) with autism.
Actually the two of them have been diagnosed for years and I have suspicions about a third (I have six kids total, four of them biological). It wasn't until two months ago that my fiancee said she thought I had Asperger's. I went through various online assessments until I got to Asperger's and BOOM 100% match on each one! I'd done the PDD-NOS assessment on myself when my oldest was diagnosed but had only gotten 30% on that so I thought had thought I was spectrum-adjacent, but had never thought I was on the spectrum myself. I was blown away.
Since then I've been reading up on Asperger's and it definitely explains all the things that have ever confused me about myself and NT folks.
I'm considering getting assessed, if it opens up more treatment options, but really I don't feel like I need treatment for Asperger's as much as I need skills training or something in the areas where I keep running into trouble in my life, especially when it comes to friendships and romantic relationships. I just want to learn how to stop making the same mistakes over and over, and learn how to better express emotions and empathy (I feel them but I can't for the life of me figure out how to express them in a socially appropriate manner).
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