Is getting answers to questions online a social skill?
Is getting answers to questions online a social skill?
I often find online forums trigger my social anxiety. Is this a cognitive distortion / catastrophizing?
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ADHD-I(diagnosed) ASD-HF(diagnosed)
RDOS scores - Aspie score 131/200 - neurotypical score 69/200 - very likely Aspie
Yes -- although, for many of us, it's not as difficult as in-person interaction.
Have you had bad experiences with online forums in the past? If so, what kinds of bad experiences?
In my opinion, old-fashioned message boards like this one are much better than social-media entities like Facebook and Twitter, which naturally lend themselves to mob mentality.
Still, it's a good idea to lurk for a while before you post, and of course you should read the rules and guidelines before you post.
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- Autistic peer-led groups (via text-based chat, currently) led or facilitated by members of the Autistic Peer Leadership Group.
- My Twitter / "X" (new as of 2021)
I have read lots of pages on how to as questions - but sometimes it seems it matters more who you know than how you communicate. I have a tendency to put too much in a post. Especially for the younger "twitter" / "text-message" crowd.
I have been using e-mail since before the web-browser was invented. Some folks seem to view anything longer than one line TL;DR. I suppose lurking for a while might be worth while - I could try to see what the tone is and what kind of posts get replies.
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ADHD-I(diagnosed) ASD-HF(diagnosed)
RDOS scores - Aspie score 131/200 - neurotypical score 69/200 - very likely Aspie
Not really. Almost any comprehensible question will get a response.
This is probably true on social media such as Twitter, where posts from the more popular people get featured and others tend to disappear quickly.
This is frustrating for Twitter newbies like me, with only one follower so far. (I got a new Twitter account earlier this month. Previously I always avoided Twitter.)
I hope you've had better luck here on Wrong Planet.
I have been using e-mail since before the web-browser was invented. Some folks seem to view anything longer than one line TL;DR. I suppose lurking for a while might be worth while - I could try to see what the tone is and what kind of posts get replies.
As far as I can tell you're doing fine, at least by Wrong Planet standards.
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- Autistic in NYC - Resources and new ideas for the autistic adult community in the New York City metro area.
- Autistic peer-led groups (via text-based chat, currently) led or facilitated by members of the Autistic Peer Leadership Group.
- My Twitter / "X" (new as of 2021)
Yes.
Know your audience.
I find it hard on here cos basically it has to be something that an aspie/autie/autistic person's loved one would understand from all around the world and all ages.
I find it easy when specialist interests are involved. Eg I have twitter geared all around my interests only.
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