How do you get turned on a by a really goodlooking woman?

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Well another thing is, if you really like the person you are dating, is it normal to think of them as much higher than you? Is this why maybe I am use to dating women I think are not as high as me, because doing so in the past, made me feel more comfortable perhaps, if that makes sense?

Oh I didn't think I was putting her on a pedestal, I just think she is a really awesome person that I couldn't be, unless that's putting on a pedestal?

Oh I definitely want to give her appreciation now for sure, and I like that she did that. I guess it's hard for me to ride it as an ego boost, but maybe I don't have enough of an ego?

Okay, but as long as her choosing me as not superficial based mostly on looks, since I don't know what else she finds appealing, since I barely have a past to talk about.

I guess I just get jealous that other people have good memories but not me, and her being so young re-iterates those memories, especially since that's what she talks about, with her age.

Okay thanks. I can try to do that. So when she says that I don't talk enough about myself, what should I say then, for when she brings that up again?

you could say something along the lines of "well, there's not much to know about me, i haven't done enough living yet." other than that, you could say what you like and what you dislike [couched gently].

Oh okay thanks, I can do that. I just thought that might seem like I am dodging the her question maybe.

Well as for people being comfortable with a large age gap vs. not comfortable, she is from a much more liberal part of the country than I am from, or so I have heard, so maybe the more liberal people are, the more comfortable they are with it, if that would play a role?

Oh okay. So if a big age gap like that is not a big deal then and it's fine, how do you get other people to see it that way, as opposed to raised eyebrows and people wanting to talk you out of it?