14 Jan 2022, 8:05 pm
auntblabby wrote:
unless they're cussin' me out, people in general don't wanna talk to me. so i guess i must radiate some vibes that, even without anything emitting from my gob, still make them feel stressed somehow. btw, if somebody asked me [they never have] "do these [article of revealing clothing] make my butt look big?" i'd tell 'em something along the lines of "they make your butt look extra bootylicious and bootyful!" 
I envy you. Stranger approach me all the time, asking for directions or some other stupid thing they would figure out on their own if they would look around or use a magic device called smartphone they all have in their hands... Or old people in the buses or even on the streets, they are the worst. So often try to get me into small talk, especially if I am with my kid (she's pretty adorable kid). I know that they are often lonely and seek contact with other people, so I try to be friendly, but I cannot stop wishing that they would just f*ck off. Cashiers at the stores, too, always want to go into some kind of small talk or throw some nonsense jokes.
That's one reason why I steer away from doing shopping in smaller shops around my neighbourhood and would rather go to a big mall with self-checkout stations. Even though I do not drive because of my epilepsy - I would rather walk 2km in one direction and then do the same, but with heavy bags in my hands, than suffer this nonsense of wasting time on meaningless interaction with people whose only role in my life is to provide me a service of putting groceries over a scanner.
14 Jan 2022, 8:11 pm
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auntblabby wrote:
unless they're cussin' me out, people in general don't wanna talk to me. so i guess i must radiate some vibes that, even without anything emitting from my gob, still make them feel stressed somehow. btw, if somebody asked me [they never have] "do these [article of revealing clothing] make my butt look big?" i'd tell 'em something along the lines of "they make your butt look extra bootylicious and bootyful!"
I envy you. Stranger approach me all the time, asking for directions or some other stupid thing they would figure out on their own if they would look around or use a magic device called smartphone they all have in their hands... Or old people in the buses or even on the streets, they are the worst. So often try to get me into small talk, especially if I am with my kid (she's pretty adorable kid). I know that they are often lonely and seek contact with other people, so I try to be friendly, but I cannot stop wishing that they would just f*ck off. Cashiers at the stores, too, always want to go into some kind of small talk or throw some nonsense jokes.
That's one reason why I steer away from doing shopping in smaller shops around my neighbourhood and would rather go to a big mall with self-checkout stations. Even though I do not drive because of my epilepsy - I would rather walk 2km in one direction and then do the same, but with heavy bags in my hands, than suffer this nonsense of wasting time on meaningless interaction with people whose only role in my life is to provide me a service of putting groceries over a scanner.
Oh wow! do you at least smile? please be a little more pleasant, at least for your daughter's sake as she will be picking up your anti-social traits.
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14 Jan 2022, 8:48 pm
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auntblabby wrote:
unless they're cussin' me out, people in general don't wanna talk to me. so i guess i must radiate some vibes that, even without anything emitting from my gob, still make them feel stressed somehow. btw, if somebody asked me [they never have] "do these [article of revealing clothing] make my butt look big?" i'd tell 'em something along the lines of "they make your butt look extra bootylicious and bootyful!"
I envy you. Stranger approach me all the time, asking for directions or some other stupid thing they would figure out on their own if they would look around or use a magic device called smartphone they all have in their hands... Or old people in the buses or even on the streets, they are the worst. So often try to get me into small talk, especially if I am with my kid (she's pretty adorable kid). I know that they are often lonely and seek contact with other people, so I try to be friendly, but I cannot stop wishing that they would just f*ck off. Cashiers at the stores, too, always want to go into some kind of small talk or throw some nonsense jokes.
That's one reason why I steer away from doing shopping in smaller shops around my neighbourhood and would rather go to a big mall with self-checkout stations. Even though I do not drive because of my epilepsy - I would rather walk 2km in one direction and then do the same, but with heavy bags in my hands, than suffer this nonsense of wasting time on meaningless interaction with people whose only role in my life is to provide me a service of putting groceries over a scanner.
i guess i'm the opposite, i'm a sociable aspie who loves amiably chatting with folks that would chat with me.
14 Jan 2022, 8:57 pm
auntblabby wrote:
KMCIURA wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
unless they're cussin' me out, people in general don't wanna talk to me. so i guess i must radiate some vibes that, even without anything emitting from my gob, still make them feel stressed somehow. btw, if somebody asked me [they never have] "do these [article of revealing clothing] make my butt look big?" i'd tell 'em something along the lines of "they make your butt look extra bootylicious and bootyful!"
I envy you. Stranger approach me all the time, asking for directions or some other stupid thing they would figure out on their own if they would look around or use a magic device called smartphone they all have in their hands... Or old people in the buses or even on the streets, they are the worst. So often try to get me into small talk, especially if I am with my kid (she's pretty adorable kid). I know that they are often lonely and seek contact with other people, so I try to be friendly, but I cannot stop wishing that they would just f*ck off. Cashiers at the stores, too, always want to go into some kind of small talk or throw some nonsense jokes.
That's one reason why I steer away from doing shopping in smaller shops around my neighbourhood and would rather go to a big mall with self-checkout stations. Even though I do not drive because of my epilepsy - I would rather walk 2km in one direction and then do the same, but with heavy bags in my hands, than suffer this nonsense of wasting time on meaningless interaction with people whose only role in my life is to provide me a service of putting groceries over a scanner.
i guess i'm the opposite, i'm a sociable aspie who loves amiably chatting with folks that would chat with me.
I'm also amiable to chat with anyone who reciprocates or looks/comes across as pleasant
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14 Jan 2022, 9:00 pm
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auntblabby wrote:
KMCIURA wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
unless they're cussin' me out, people in general don't wanna talk to me. so i guess i must radiate some vibes that, even without anything emitting from my gob, still make them feel stressed somehow. btw, if somebody asked me [they never have] "do these [article of revealing clothing] make my butt look big?" i'd tell 'em something along the lines of "they make your butt look extra bootylicious and bootyful!"
I envy you. Stranger approach me all the time, asking for directions or some other stupid thing they would figure out on their own if they would look around or use a magic device called smartphone they all have in their hands... Or old people in the buses or even on the streets, they are the worst. So often try to get me into small talk, especially if I am with my kid (she's pretty adorable kid). I know that they are often lonely and seek contact with other people, so I try to be friendly, but I cannot stop wishing that they would just f*ck off. Cashiers at the stores, too, always want to go into some kind of small talk or throw some nonsense jokes.
That's one reason why I steer away from doing shopping in smaller shops around my neighbourhood and would rather go to a big mall with self-checkout stations. Even though I do not drive because of my epilepsy - I would rather walk 2km in one direction and then do the same, but with heavy bags in my hands, than suffer this nonsense of wasting time on meaningless interaction with people whose only role in my life is to provide me a service of putting groceries over a scanner.
i guess i'm the opposite, i'm a sociable aspie who loves amiably chatting with folks that would chat with me.
I'm also amiable to chat with anyone who reciprocates or looks/comes across as pleasant
increasingly, the country parts of amuuurica have adopted the ice-cold unfriendliness of the big cities, strangers don't chat anymore, by and large. in my small town, there is still some bonhomie but it is disappearing with the older generations.
14 Jan 2022, 9:06 pm
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14 Jan 2022, 10:19 pm
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My mom not only says this to me, but also to my NT sister.
Our mom has a tendency to exaggerate and it's so annoying!
Our mom has a tendency to exaggerate and it's so annoying!
That's just mums in general. They love talking to their kids.
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or serious, but understandable enough.
15 Jan 2022, 1:12 am
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cyberdad wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
My mom not only says this to me, but also to my NT sister.
Our mom has a tendency to exaggerate and it's so annoying!
Our mom has a tendency to exaggerate and it's so annoying!
That's just mums in general. They love talking to their kids.
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or serious, but understandable enough.
Oh, well Mums like to exaggerate to their kids, but I mean't it in a positive way because they love them and sometimes stretch the truth
15 Jan 2022, 1:17 am
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