Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.
"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken... Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.
Joined: 21 Feb 2011 Age: 54 Gender: Male Posts: 27,731
26 Feb 2022, 10:06 pm
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Sounds like the guy was just kidding.
I asked him later on that night why he called me ugly and he said “because you are ugly”
He's your friend?
I do see him quite regurley on the weekends at the pub. Not really sure if he’s my friend or not though? But he is part of my social group
Well in that case he's not your friend. He's at best an acquaintance who doesn't care how you feel. What did the girl do after his comment?
I don’t think she said anything really or maybe she didn’t hear his comment?
Alas, in that case you got distracted by the guy when you should have been focusing on the girl. Like a fisherman who catches a fish and then focuses on something irrelevant and let's the fish slip out of their fingers back in to the water.
Joined: 11 Jun 2013 Gender: Male Posts: 22,715 Location: Australia
26 Feb 2022, 11:13 pm
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Sounds like the guy was just kidding.
I asked him later on that night why he called me ugly and he said “because you are ugly”
He's your friend?
I do see him quite regurley on the weekends at the pub. Not really sure if he’s my friend or not though? But he is part of my social group
With friends like that, who needs enemies, as they say. The woman, assuming she was sincere, would probably have been disgusted by your "friend's" comment, if she thought *he* was sincere.
It sounds as though your friend was joking even if he denied it (another joke). I actually say things like that as a yapes, but with a smile. I.E. Say the unexpected.
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Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.
"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken... Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.
"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken... Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.
Joined: 3 Jun 2021 Age: 25 Gender: Female Posts: 622
26 Feb 2022, 11:55 pm
If you’re attracted to women I’d be more interested in what the woman thought, not your male friend. I’ve found that some people joke this way, by insulting. I’ve never liked it, and try to avoid those people. There’s a difference in playfully joking, for instance playing a game and a friend saying, “You suck.” And making those kinds of jokes... and calling you ugly, in my opinion. I had a female friend who used to joke around by poking fun at me, and I dumped her as a friend. It got old and made me feel bad.