Trouble With My Sister

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My mom left a trust fund for me,my sister & my nephew, the money ran out, my sister going get a loan. It her fault, she should have told me we were running out of money sooner than she did, if she told me when I asked her, I could have saved more money. Why she always claims that she knows ALOT about me, I don’t understand. She acting like my mother not my sister. She don’t care to realize that she is wrong about me. She loves to be right, she think it up to her to decide what I have. She can make things sooo worse for me. She think I can handle things like she can & can handle stress like she can. She think I’m lucky to stay home & get free money, I’m lucky!! Lucky to have Cereal Palsy, Aspergers & Psoriasis, she don’t know about my Dyslexia & Learning Disability. Now she claims she is disabled herself. I HATE that woman! When I think about dying, she is a big part of it. When I call my grandmother, she always asked how is what her face, how do I know, we are not close, I wish she would stop asking about what her face. She think family need family, alot of families don’t get along, they don’t even see each other.

^^^ i am sorry your trust fund was mismanaged, that sucks for sure.

Your sister made mistakes but I don't think they made any difference on the inevitability of the fund running out.

I think borrowing more money is a very bad idea.

Unless you had a trust large enough to live off the interest generated by the principal ,it would eventually run out.
If you had a $100,000 trust that was generating 10% that would only be $10,000 year to use without touching the initial investment .
To live off a trust without depleting it you would need at least $ 500,000.Even then your trust wouldn’t grow without reinvesting some of the interest.
I’m with Nades, borrowing is a bad idea if you plan on living off the loan.She would need collateral for the loan , and a excellent credit rating to be approved for a loan that large.

I think both you and your sister need to come to terms with the reality of the situation you find yourself in now. Your sister planning to get a loan as a substitute for a trust appears to be somewhat out of touch on her end. She is aware that all money from a loan needs to be paid back eventually with even more on top? Loans are intended as a temporary pot of money that need to be used wisely with a plan to pay it all back. Loans can't be used as a source of income.

I would speak to your local authorities and see if you can claim benefits ideally outside of the sphere of your sister.