babybird wrote:
It depends whether I like the people around me as to whether I'll make an effort to befriend them or not.
Sometimes it's a work of art to keep people at a distance whilst at the same time remain approachable.
To me being popular means you get invited to events etc so this is something I would avoid unless (like I said before) I was particularly keen on the people who could potentially invite me to an event.
Ah. I was usually the one who was "Tollerated" as part of a group but ignored when it came to invites. (Not always but mostly and I did not really mind because I didn't really want to go to places or do the things that most of them liked etc.).
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10 Apr 2022, 10:18 am
