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FranzOren
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12 May 2022, 9:41 pm

One thing you are good at is being a comedian. Have you ever thought about being one? I kind of see the future in you, congratulations! I am proud of you!



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12 May 2022, 9:44 pm

FranzOren wrote:
I am sorry that in history not kind to myself. I have very low-self esteem, suicidal thoughts, envy myself and get frustrated at myself and sometimes call myself "Retarded" for having profound learning disorder, and sometimes give up on learning, as it is so frustrating. I used the phrase "Retarded" on myself from people who called me that for not learning like my peers.

I am also mentally ill after that.


There is no profit in that.
It only makes things worse.

A psychologist enlightened me about internalised negative thoughts.
Thinking affects your moods.
Negative thinking affects your mood negatively.
I was advised to change to positive internal dialogue instead, but you need to be realistic.
Over optimistic thinking is not constructive either.


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If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


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Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet."
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)
Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.


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12 May 2022, 9:45 pm

I agree. I need to be more realistic about myself.

Thank you!



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12 May 2022, 10:03 pm

FranzOren wrote:
I agree. I need to be more realistic about myself.

Thank you!


Will you be paying by cheque or cash?
With cash, you get a 10% discount. :money: ;)


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,



Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet."
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)
Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.


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13 May 2022, 3:52 pm

I am starting to develop more social skills from you, in the context to spot jokes.

Thank you! It feels like social skill training and self-therapy.



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13 May 2022, 10:33 pm

OK if anyone is serious about getting smarter, I recommend brilliant.org. :)

Learning new things can be a huge boost to your self esteem. It doesn't have to be typical smart things like math or biology. Something simple like knitting, macrame, or wood carving can be very rewarding as well, especially if you join a local group. I still recall fondly the feelings when I learned about different woods. I never became much of a carver, but I can at least now recognize wood and know their value. The world is full of opportunities to enrich your life. Try some and feel the pleasure of being alive. :)


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13 May 2022, 11:12 pm

Thank you!



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13 May 2022, 11:19 pm

FranzOren wrote:
I am starting to develop more social skills from you, in the context to spot jokes.

Thank you! It feels like social skill training and self-therapy.


EEP! 8O
I doubt many would agree with you.

A Mini-Me Pepe will freak most people out. :mrgreen:


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,



Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet."
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)
Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.


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13 May 2022, 11:38 pm

You should be a comedian. HAHA!! !



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13 May 2022, 11:39 pm

FranzOren wrote:
You should be a comedian. HAHA!! !


What do you mean "should be"? 8O


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,



Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet."
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)
Read my lips:-I am not a fan of the orange man.-I would never vote for the Republican party given the chance.-I am interested in being objective and rational.


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13 May 2022, 11:47 pm

Because, you are funny.